A Request...( The way I decided to send a friend request to a Girl in Facebook..)




This might sound Desperate.. But I was really taken away from this girl's beauty when I saw her pics.. so I decided to sent her a friend request in a unique way.. by writing her a poem as a Personal Message =D.

She hasn't responded as yet but I am keeping my fingers crossed.. Check it out and Enjoy !! =)

PS: That's not her in the pic.. She is much more prettier than that =D


Every time I come to HSBC , I see your face..
Smiling and Working at the same time.. O what a Grace...

I always wanted to talk with you
But I was Always Afraid
Since I didn't want to bother you at work
And thought of leaving you Instead

I was going through a friend list of my friends today..
Suddenly I saw your pic and remembered your face..

I was happy, overjoyed cos I never thought I will
Find you in Facebook, and see you smiling still

My heart was trembling as i started typing
a mail of a different kind I hope like it

A request... for friendship... nothing more.. nothing less..
I sincerely hope u will read this mail.. without putting it to junk mail..

I am sending you a friend request.. attached with this mail...
I hope to hear from you soon and a favorable response as well =)

Have a great weekend.. and have a gr8 future too...
Keep on Smiling just like this... cos its looks soo good in you... =)


XOXO !!


Until Next Time

~Peace~




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Change in Approach...




I feel like I should change my approach to life.. This metronomic fast forward lifestyle is turning my life into a cobweb where I cannot find the place I could fit in.. Long Working hours.. Short Weekends.. Lack of Sleep.. Lack of time spent with Friends.. More time spent in front of the Computer and TV ... What's happening with me ??? Every moment I try to figure this out I get the chills..

The current financial crisis in our family has been one of the main reasons that has led me to live this kinda of a lifestyle.. As the eldest in my family I have sacrificed all my pleasures and joys for the sake of seeing my brother having a good last few days in Sri Lanka before he goes back to US. For the sake of seeing my sister happy as she goes through the rough times of studying for her als. For the sake of keeping my parents happy and smiling by lending them money whenever they have financial issues and be more responsible for my actions by starting to pay my own phone bill.. I am happy in doing all of these stuff.. even though I don't get my salary on time..

I hate when other people joke about me and my family thinking we are rich people just because we got a good car, a good house and ADSL etc. I don't listen to them when they gag about me.. I don't really mind it.. But I do get mad, frustrated and sad when they direct those talks to my dad and my family.. How can people be so pathetic?? and the worst part is they always come back asking to lend some money when they are broke. Sadly, I have learned some good qualities while growing up specially from my parents and my grandmother and that has made me a very approachable person to others to get some cash when they want it.. I am HELPLESS at those situations and I HATE THAT..

One of my sister's friends broke my digital camera and it's gonna cost 12,000 rupees to fix it back... The head phones in my Phone doesn't work anymore and I don't think I can replace it.. I still wear the same old shoes I bought in 2004 and it's almost on it's last ride.. My Boss at Work is not satisfied with my work and always yells at me for not doing what he wants.. People say Life is a Bitch..I say it's worst than that..

With all these bad things happening with me.. I decided to stay POSITIVE no matter what.. I am a believer of moments and I am sure better moments will come to my life someday.. I have suddenly become more money minded and I have a goal now to earn as much as I can so I can fulfill my desires in the future... I have my own ways of enjoying life by listening to good music.. by watching a cricket or football game on tv by hanging out with my family .. by going to a movie once in a while not caring about who wants to come with me or not.. I got some simple pleasures that I cherish so much.. that burning positivity , contentment and desire to smile has kept me going strong so far and I hope and prey that strength would stay with me forever..

No matter what happens...I know my goals .. I know what I want.. Someday I know I will be the happiest man on Earth and with my vision to be the Richest Man in the world still hanging around 2.. I know that I won't fail..

I used to be a timid guy who never had a vision, a goal or desire and used to cry about all the stuff that happened with me.. It WON'T happen anymore.. and nothing would stop me from reaching the highest mountain that I want to reach..

I know that my real friends will support me.. and God will take care of the fake ones..so I don't have to worry about them. Girlfriend will come someday.. when she comes.. Ill accept her..and give her all my love..

A new path has dawned for me.. and I am starting to leave my footprints along that path.. which I am sure will lead me to Success

Wish me Luck Peeps !

Until Next Time

~Peace~




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Cupid should be Hanged..




Cupid is crazy..
He's not a friend but a foe..
He thinks he brings hearts together
But often he breaks more..

He is not a friend but an assassin
Who brings pain through arrows..
Yet he never forgets to smile..
Making us believe what he shows..

More often a Looser than a winner
Not often a smile but a tear
Call himself an actual god
But acts like a dirty criminal..

For being a useless freak
Who never shows off himself
For not being there
When you need his shade

For being an utterly useless
Piece of Shit !

I believe that..
Cupid should be Hanged..



Until Next Time
~Peace~




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Dirty Diana..




She was in her late 20's ..Dark Blue Eyes..Long Hair that Shines like Black Velvet.. Bright Red Lips that Glowed in Sunlight..Skin Color which was just Unique.. .. She was every guy's dream girlfriend.. every girl's dream best friend.. Her name was Diana.. Everyone knew her only by that name..

She spoke rarely.. always responded to people's conversations with a smile.. she only had a few friends.. all of them girls..always hangout with that bunch..She never showed an interest towards guys ..and every guy who admired her thought she had a boyfriend so never really approached her and kept on admiring how beautiful and charming she was..

However.. there was one guy who didn't want to give up..he was a dude who had a lot of girls coming after him.. he rejected all of them since he was in love with Diana...He wanted Diana.. and after taking a lot of courage and determination to his heart.. he approached her and asked her out..

Diana was surprised at first.. and after some thought she told him that she would tell him the next day if they can go out or not.. The guy was happy cos at least she didn't say no.. he awaited eagerly for hours to pass. waiting to hear a "Yes."

The next day came.. and he was waiting in the front lawn of the Uni waiting her to appear and let him know.. She was there and when he came towards she smiled as she always does and told him the 3 letters he wanted to hear..

He was overjoyed but never showed it to her as they went out later that night..It was a simple date.. with ice cream.. a walk in the beach.. and back home in his bicycle... She loved it .. he loved it.. both of them loved it.. and before she left him that day she told him to close his eyes and gave him a kiss as she ran down her fingers down his eyes and lips.. he was feeling that he was in wonderland.. as she went away saying "Good Night !".

Days passed and People in Uni were amazed to see the new couple.. the other guys were amazed and this dude's courage to ask Diana out and some were even jealous because they couldn't make a move before him..They were a happy couple..

UNTIL... Diana began to change...

Diana suddenly decided to get away from her lover.. she began to ignore him and though He was her boyfriend, she tried her level best to stay away from him and hang out with her mates.. He was confused about all of these recent happenings and was really upset since he thought he has done something wrong to Diana. She began to ignore him and though He was her boyfriend, she tried her level best to stay away from him and hang out with her mates.. He was confused about all of these recent happenings and was really upset since he thought he has done something wrong.. he couldn't bear this distance apart between him and her and finally decided to ask her what this was all about..

"Baby, why are you avoiding me ?? Do you know how much I tried to call you ?? Every time when I call you turn off your phone.. Every time I try to meet you.. you say you are busy.. you don't even notice me anymore.. is something wrong? tell me honey why are you avoiding me like this.."

Diana was silent for a moment, then as she always did.. she smiled and replied back

"I am sorry baby.. you are just not my TYPE, we did have a good thing going on for sometime and I enjoyed every bit of that but now I am in love with another guy and I don't love you anymore..So let's end this please.. Cos I don't want to break your heart and give you any false hopes.. I am not in love with you anymore.. I have another Boyfriend !"

After saying this she showed him her new boyfriend.. He was first amazed when she told all this stuff to him, he was even more surprised when he saw her new boyfriend.. it was his best friend in Uni.. the guy with whom he had a friendship for over 10 years.. She has decided to choose his friend over him.. he was utterly devastated..

"So you decided to choose my friend instead of him.. Then why did you tell me that you love me.. ??" the guy asked with a lot of anger burning in his eyes..

She smiled again and replied back "I never said that I LOVE YOU "

He frowned..and went speechless... he tried his level best to hide his pain and anger at the same time.. He didn't know what has hit him..unable to hold on to those feelings and unable to look at her face again.. he walked away.. still mad with himself.. with her.. and his best friend.. whom he thought has betrayed him.. and his friendship..

Days passed as he saw the new couple with happy smiles everyday when he came to Uni. He was unable to concentrate on his studies as his mind was dwelling on the thoughts about her as he kept asking himself "Where did I go wrong ??" he was mad with his friend , he wanted to punch him in the face but he never did it cos he was not that type of a guy. he tried to avoid them as much as he could but whenever he saw her smile.. his anger, hatred and sadness grew to greater heights..

Time passed and one day during a Uni batch party, he saw his friend alone and having a beer. Remembering everything what has happened with him and being drunk with a lot of wine sunken down his throat, he thought this was the correct time to get back at his friend for taking away the girl he loved so much..

He showed up from behind and grabbed his friend shirt collar and was about to punch his friend on his face when his friend yelled " Dude Dude Stop ! Stop !! Don't Do It.."

He replied Back "You are not a Good Friend.. You took my Girl away from me and you are now dating her.. you broke my heart and trust man .. I need revenge.. I want to smack you in the face for doing this to me.." and aimed his fists to his friends face.

The friend stopped him again and said "Dude Stop It Bro.. It's not worth it.. you are not the only one who got hurt.. she did the same thing to me man.. just take a look around and see .. she is not with me anymore.."

He was surprised and amazed when he heard those words.. he calmed himself down and looked around. There he saw her.. and with his eyes widening up ..he saw her with another guy.. hugging and kissing and dancing ecstatically.. and he saw another thing that was soo familiar to him.. She was "Smiling"

He turned back to his friend and said "You 2 Bro ? " and his friend replied "Yes Bro..She said I didn't say "I Love You.." "

The two friends talked about everything Diana did with them and it was quite evident that both of them were fooled around by her fake love, fake kisses and most of all her fake smile..

Years after their graduation the two friends went back to the Uni get together where they met all their old friends.. They also saw Diana whom they got to know was a lecturer in the same Uni. She was with a guy hugging and kissing and having some glasses of wine. When they saw the dude they found one similarity.. It was another Guy.. the dude who was with her during the party was there at the get together as well.. alone.. and having numerous glasses of beer. The two friends realized what has happened and went near the Dude and said one thing..

" Sorry Mate..guess you have been DUMPED too by Dirty Diana.. We guess she told you too that you didn't say to her "I Love You..""


Until Next Time
~Peace~




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Friends Will Always be Friends.. No Matter What..



We do have our misunderstandings from time to time
We do get mad at each other . we never talk to each other
But we always remain friends...

Though we are not meeting each other
As often as we may like
We always remember each other
Through a forward mail or a SMS..

We think of ourselves sometimes
I guess it's normal to human beings
But still as friends we are together
During good and bad times..

Loosing a Friend is Easy
Making a Friend is Hard
I might have unfortunately
Broken your Hearts..

But remember grudges are temporary
Friendship is forever..
D, L and G Always Remember..

We Will Be ..


Friends Forever..
!! =)

<3


Until Next Time

~Peace~




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R Kelly- I Am The Greatest




Such an Awesome Song.. I only heard it for the first time yesterday and It just made me smile after having a bad day at work...

There is no video as such But listen to the Lyrics.. Its just Simply Awesome =)

Enjoy !!

Until Next Time
~Peace~




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Boys Do Cry...



It's not something to be ashamed of..
It's not something to stare at and laugh..
It's not something to be laugh at..

Boys are Human Beings 2.. and when they cry openly or at close doors.. Do respect their tears cos it means something..

"God Never Created Tears tagging it as "Ladies Only.." "

So Remember Always..

"Boys DO Cry.."


Until Next Time
~Peace~




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Runner's Up

The following is 50 percent a poem and 50 percent a song..=) Just some thoughts that rang on my head while being stuck on traffic while on the way home today.. Hope you guys like it =D




Lately.. I have begun to realize
You are drifting away from me
Sadly.. I can't talk with you about this
You always seems to get angry

I tried.. to do my best
To always make you keep you happy
You said.. you are not a boyfriend
You always stay away from me

Why do you keep running away..?
Why do you want to test me this way.?
I don't wanna be the 2nd best..
I don't wanna be runners up ..
for your heart..


Sometimes.. I wish I was your Brother
Cos you are always with him not me..
Its ok.. as long as you treat me well
But you always ignore me..

Baby.. Just give me a sign please
I cannot bear this pain inside..
Whatever.. you say or do though
I will try my best to be first..

Why do you keep running away..?
Why do you want to test me this way.?
I don't wanna be the 2nd best..
I don't wanna be runners up ..
for your heart..


Until Next Time
~Peace~




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Random Thoughts after a Very Interesting Week...


"Anger".. It gets you no where and in the end you will only have frustrations and will loose respect, trust and mostly friends..

"Think Twice" before you "Come to Conclusions.." quick decisions can lead you into a lot of trouble and later frustration..

Never believe what others say.. until you have enough evidence to prove to yourself that what those others are saying is true..

"Don't" leave your old friends for new ones.. cos only the old ones will stick with you forever..

"You can be a Body Builder" and a "Fitness Guru" but having strong bones is not good if you don't have a "Strong Mind."

"Be there for Friends.." when they need you the "Most.."

"Never Betray Your Parents.." they are the ones who loves you the most.. NOT your "Boy friends.." or ""Girlfriends.."

Happiness is not found through "Random Experiences" Its Eternal Happiness that matters the Most.

Until Next Time

~Peace~




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