Random Thursday..

Things are moving along smoothly in life these days. work , life balance is maintained though I am on call 24/7 and must say I am used to this lifestyle now.

Try my best to always find some time to do self studying and improve my knowledge. I have become addicted to reading now I feel its a good thing.

I always try to do what I love to do and making music and photography are two things which has kept me occupied during my free times and has yielded good results.


Family wedding season will begin next month and it will go on till next January. Fun and Food wise its a good thing but finding something to wear for all the occasions would be a tricky one.

What a win by Mahela and the Kochi Tuskers in the IPL yesterday over KKR. Mahela showed why he is a great captain and Shah Rukh Khan must be having a new theme song now " Kochi Kochi Hotha Hai !!"

Some small advice before I stop. "Don't go after things too much.. be patient once you have done your best. and if you did it honestly and in a good heart, good results will eventually come. "


Cheers !!

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I Should Have Been a Lawyer...

Sirawata I should have been a Lawyer you know. I am a talkative Parrot sometimes and can break into a conversation without control and can argue till I win the whole plum.
Numerous times I have been cautioned by my Parents my Friends by telling "Dude Control yourself , Putha Mokada Mei ??"or by pulling my leg or shirt without the notice of others. But the truth of the fact is that I am not short of a word to prove the things I believe on and I would go the whole distance by talking to prove it and convince others (Even in some cases its wrong.).

Once I had the desire to be a lawyer and almost sat for the Law Entrance Exam. In the end I realized it was not the job for me since I had a passion for other things such as IT and writing =D.( I am glad I made that choice =D).

Still I am not short of a word.Last Night I was arguing with a bunch of Indians regarding the Test Match and I only stopped because they never replied me back =D. Guess they knew they cannot talk with 1 Sri Lankan who had the balls to show them that we are not pussies like them =D.

The Talking Parrot Won =D and Maybe in the Next Life Time I can be a Lawyer and win some cases and make the whole world happy =D.

Hope everyone is having a Fabulous Week. =D

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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I will Do anything for Love.. but I WON'T Do that...

Things I WONT do when searching for Love..


Go after my Best Friend's Girl though deep inside I feel I am attracted to her..

Ask my Best Girlfriend Out. Friends becoming Lovers don't ALWAYS work.

Cry, Cry, Cry when a girl rejects me asking her to give me another chance (Though I will try to fix the things she does not like about me so she will feel the same way about me )

Perform the Dating Advice I give to Others. ( It never works for the Tutor. It Always works for the Student )

Change my Good Beliefs , Qualities and Attitudes to win Lady Love.( It's not worth it)

And Finally..

Go After Love.. Sometimes Patience is the way to open the door of the most Unreachable Heart.. :)

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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Art of An Amature..

In the past I used to draw.I was able to draw people looking at them or their pics which gave me much joy when I had nothing to do. I didn't seriously take note of my this ability of mine though my Grandma used to persuade me to do it more often.. Today is her Birthday and as a tribute to her I decided to use this talent and draw some portraits of my friends :) Here are the Results.. :)


















It took me two days to complete these drawings But when I see the results I think the effort was worth it :). Glad I can pay tribute to Atthamma like this on her Birthday and I hope our artists Lost Soul and Black like these 2 :).

Have a great week Ahead Everyone and Keep on Smiling :).

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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Anger Management... How You Do it ?

Anger is one of the most feared emotions by Human Beings. An angry person can do things that he/she really doesn't want to do.. and often it ends up giving bad results rather than good ones. Sometimes it is said that long time anger is ok but the one that is always bad is being short tempered cos it makes you a monster and force you to do things that you really don't want to do. ( Believe me.. I have experience on that..).So.. it is really important to manage your Anger, at least stop it from happening often.. otherwise you will end up loosing your mind , loosing your friends . loosing the trust you worked hard to build up and more importantly. the love of the people whom you really want to love you and care about you.

What makes you Angry? If you see this Picture in this Post you will realize that. The points in that are so damn true and often those are the facts that makes you loose your temper.

So how can we control Anger? I have done many things to control myself from getting Angry.. Meditation is one solution it's good if you can meditate once a day cos it really heals your mind,stops you from thinking unnecessary things and calms you down when you feel you are getting mad.Another solution is listening to your favorite tunes when you feel that you are getting angry.. Music does heal your Soul ! so always rely on that to make you happy if you feel that you r not in a good mood and is feeling angry just about anything.. Try talking to yourself more and try to find out the outcome of the things you will do when you are angry.. will you loose a friend ? are you doing the right thing or wrong thing? can I solve this issue without being angry ? etc. This kind of talk really helps you to calm yourself during short tempered situations.. and helps you to choose the right path rather than getting mad and going on the wrong one. Also it is good to talk with a friend or a loved one you can trust about the issues you are getting mad at. Sometimes bottling up all your thoughts leads to getting Angry and Mad and it could end up being physical sometimes.. so best thing to do is talk or write down what you want to say this really helps you to heal yourself and forget the fact that you are getting mad.

Whatever said and done and No Matter how much solutions we do to manage Anger we should remember we are all human beings. Anger is part of us and we really can't live without it. I am also a person who gets mad( often in the past now its slowly decreasing..)and I have also had my own share of incidents where Anger has taken the better of me. But, I have always wanted to stop it so I have done the things I have said before to stop getting Angry. It DOES work. so do give it a try and I am sure it will work for you 2 =).

"Anger is a Monster in Disguise Waiting to Gobble you Down to Hell. Don't let it dot that..Cos You Belong in Heaven not in Hell."


Have a Great Week Ahead Everyone.. =)

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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Check It.. Check It.. The Facebook Girl.. Accepted my Request.. =D

Remember the Girl to whom I sent a friend request through a Poem ?? (Check out my last Post if you haven't seen the Request yet :P) well she decided to accept it after all today and replied me back =D

Its been a bloody hell of a weekend for me and two days cos I have been down with the flu. I took a blood test on Sunday and the Doc says that I have traces of Sugar :( I am scared of having it so I am hoping I would be fine soon... gonna go for a blood test tomorrow 2 and c the results...

Wish me luck with my Health and with the Gal 2.. :) She is such an Awesome Girl and I would do everything I can do to win her heart.. I feel she is my Julia :P and I have confidence I will win her..

Facebook Thank You for this.. and PLEASE NOTE that if any people of the government reading this PLEASE DO NOT BLOCK FACEBOOK 2.. PLEASE ! =D it's my one and only shot to win this ladies heart and I am sure it will inspire many to do the same in the future.. =D

Have a gr8 week ahead everyone .. May Good Health and Love be upon you All ! =D

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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A Request...( The way I decided to send a friend request to a Girl in Facebook..)

This might sound Desperate.. But I was really taken away from this girl's beauty when I saw her pics.. so I decided to sent her a friend request in a unique way.. by writing her a poem as a Personal Message =D.

She hasn't responded as yet but I am keeping my fingers crossed.. Check it out and Enjoy !! =)

PS: That's not her in the pic.. She is much more prettier than that =D


Every time I come to HSBC , I see your face..
Smiling and Working at the same time.. O what a Grace...

I always wanted to talk with you
But I was Always Afraid
Since I didn't want to bother you at work
And thought of leaving you Instead

I was going through a friend list of my friends today..
Suddenly I saw your pic and remembered your face..

I was happy, overjoyed cos I never thought I will
Find you in Facebook, and see you smiling still

My heart was trembling as i started typing
a mail of a different kind I hope like it

A request... for friendship... nothing more.. nothing less..
I sincerely hope u will read this mail.. without putting it to junk mail..

I am sending you a friend request.. attached with this mail...
I hope to hear from you soon and a favorable response as well =)

Have a great weekend.. and have a gr8 future too...
Keep on Smiling just like this... cos its looks soo good in you... =)

XOXO !!


Until Next Time

~Peace~

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The Cheap Girlfriend...

Always come back saying "I shouldn't have left you" after dumping you for another guy..

Takes your Money.. Shop as much as she wants and spends all the money up and says to you "Sorry !"

Thinks you are the "Perfect Boyfriend" but never tells you "I Love You.."

Always USE you to show off to others that she has you has a Boyfriend..

Smiles but with DEADLY Intentions..

Puts a lot of makeup to EVERY function she Attends.

Always prepared to leave you for someone better if she thinks you are not her Type..

Until Next Time..

~Peace~

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PORN - The Best Medicine..

The following post maybe contain things that are uncomfortable. Reader Discretion is Advised.

Ever wondered why people are soooo addicted to porn? I always had this question in my mind on why people watch porn cos it really doesn't give you anything but just pure pleasure and satisfaction. People think that only guys watch porn but I have seen girls who like porn too and watch it too. So why Porn ??

On my point of view I think there are some reasons why people get addicted to porn. Most people watch it cos they are single and when they need to get sexually aroused. Some people watch it to get rid of their curiosity and some people watch it to stick with friends and to have a story to talk about the next day. just like watching a cricket match and talking about the next day =).

But is this the only reason to watch porn? and does only single people watch it ? the answer for both of these questions are NO!. People watch porn to help them improve their concentration..( yes it works !) some watch it just cos they are bored and there are more numerous reasons which I won't tell here cos I think u already know =).

BUT I got one problem.. why do married people watch porn?? I mean don't they have their freaking husbands and wives to fuck?? As all the philosophers say. isn't the real thing better than watching it on tv or a computer? these are questions that needs to be answered and I am sure will not get answered by anyone.. Porn has just inhabitant the human mind and not even a person who is married for 50 years cannot survive a day without porn..

As I said earlier porn does have have it's good part. It helps to keep a person quiet , takes off their stress and also provides a learning curve to all the people who doesn't know the old and new ways to have sex ( do not try the moves u see on tv though.. if you ain't got the energy and the skill it would just be a futile task and your partner will just go way scared and angry..=D )

I was addicted to porn once but later I realized that it was just a waste of time and stopped it until I get the real experience (if u know what I mean) ;). Yet I also watch some still whenever I feel it . I guess its now a part of humans and will continue to be so for years to come..

So when you look at all the above facts.. you can say that

"PORN is just the Best Medicine "

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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Yes .. We Are IT People.. BUT Don't Expect us to do Everything....

IT /Information Technology is considered as a subject "ALMOST" to be associated with Computers. The reason I have put the "ALMOST" in inverted commas, bold and italics is with very good reason,cos Its NOT always about computers when it comes to IT, there are lot of things behind that subject and there are many components and sub components inside it which finally makes it "IT".

Well I don't know if the above paragraph made any sense at all but what I am trying to say is basically is the heading. Just that IT guys knows about computer stuff things around it , it does not mean we (I am using we cos I am a dude involved with IT too) have to EVERYTHING I mean EVERY EFFING THING regarding computers and IT related areas. We are also humans and there 's a limit for everything we know too. BUT SADLY some people doesn't know it, people who doesn't know what IT is and doesn't know what the effing word a "COMPUTER" means doesn't know it. This is really sad you know. Very Very Sad.

An incident culminated in office today where this woman from the accounts department at my workplace came running towards us while we were busy with the shifting work that is being going on at our department asking us to fix their network cos it is not working. Well to our credit we kinda knew how to correct the problem, BUT this woman was an arrogant shitty stubborn woman who always shouted at us and blamed us when her computer was not working. We have a Network Administrator ( if you don't know who it is all you IT Greeks just copy the word and search it in Google you will know then.)but she never troubled him when she had problems ,, she always came to us always trying to stop our work and get her work done.(Biatch !!)

Anyways we said to her we are busy with the shifting stuff so just ask the Network Admin and get the problem solved. So what was her answer.. " I thought you guys know everything , guess you cannot fix a simple network.." I choose not to answer the woman cos I know her character and I have seen many people from the same department of hers saying the exact thing. But my colleagues were just upset like me and were cursing the woman all the way. BUT the good thing is we never did it =D and though another woman came after us asking us to fix her freaking printer we never did that too =D.

All I want to say is don't think that every IT guy knows everything and Don't treat them as your servants or slaves. We got some dignity and an IT career has it own sheer value just like when it comes Accountancy , Engineering and also a Doctor. Always remember you need a IT guy somewhere down the line cos these days you "Cannot Live" without a Computer.

So Respect the IT guy, Respect the IT People cos you never know when you need one..

PS: WE DON'T KNOW & DO EVERYTHING !!!

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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Dear Emotions, I HATE YOU !!

As I once wrote in this post called Emotional Freak. Emotions have taken a toll on me yet again its really hard you know to keep these emotions inside me and live with them. But, I am doing my best to keep those emotions in control and stop letting them affect my life and ambitions.

Today I thought of talking about Emotions in general. To start off, I got two questions. Why do we need them? Can't we live without them ? I just feel that emotions were given to human beings to let everyone else know how you feel. But what would u do if a whole lot of freaking emotions come to at once and make u feel awkward..? gives you freaking headaches and makes u go crazy ?? I believe that it's not good for you or for the ones whom you care, love and share your life with.

You smile and laugh loudly when something good happens to ya. You cry your heart out when something bad happens. .you get mad and angry when things doesn't go your way.. and sometimes you don't know what to feel cos things happen without your control and bring bad results to yourself (ex: How about your name getting printed wrong in your driving license and its just one letter missing there ?? what do u feel ?? what would you do ??)

This is when I begin to love the song "Like a Stone" by AudioSlave.. I know its not really about emotions but it does tell you that you don't move.. I kinda don't wanna move now and wanna live like a stone.. So I don't feel anything.. and can be happy cos nothing would affect me.

I guess emotions arrive to us through the attachments we make in life.. The more we get attached to people the more we get emotional.. and the more we drift away.. the more we get hurt and get bloody messed up with all those emotions... also we cannot live alone in this world .. which makes Living like a Stone practically unsuccessful and just a fruitless thought..

Still we got Emotions.. and I don't think it will never go away.. this is why I love to end this post with the title of this post which ironically also states an emotion.

"Dear Emotions, I HATE YOU !! "

Until Next Time
~Peace~

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The "System"... Why ??

As a guy I have always wondered why guys are attracted to girls. I know its kinda crazy but I always wondered why it happens naturally and no matter how you try to resist that attraction,It always comes to u.. sometimes as a blessing.. sometimes as a problem or disaster.

God created Man and Woman for a reason. He created them so that the human existence will be prolonged and will be continued from generation to generation. For this an attraction towards each other is a must. So, he created this thing called attraction and ultimately the thing we call Sex so that his objective can be achieved and the existence of the human race as well the rest of the world would be there forever.

That's what I believe..

BUT what if you are going against this? What if you want to go against the "System" ? What would happen to that person ? Will he/she be thrown out of the society? Will he/she would be disrespected , ignored and thought to be a crazy person who should be put in a mental hospital?

I don't believe that it should NOT happen. cos that person got a point too.

Just think for a moment.. What this whole "System" has done to our lives? We always think about the opposite sex . We always go after love , affection , warmth of a partner so we can be happy and feel loved. But is that the only reason ? If it's only the reason why do we get laid ? why do we have sex ? We can love a person without sex right?

I think this will be a question that wont be answered forever. How much a guy try to avoid girls.. pretend they are not around.. and stop talking or going after them.. It won't last for long and its the same way other way around too. If they don't do this they will use other means such as "Porn" or "Self Service" to keep themselves entertained and carry on with the "System". Cos without the "System" you are nothing.. and If you are going against it.. you are just pathetic..

We say we live in a World of Animals and I guess We are also a part of it.It's not our fault or anyone else. Its just because of the "System".

Until Next Time..

~Peace~

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Love.. Complicated...

Matters of the Heart is always complicated. It gets complicated when it's a situation where two people have fallen in love with one person and both wants that person for themselves. This leaves the person who got two hearts coming after in dilemma where he/she has to choose one cos he can only be with one person in the end.

A friend of mine from Australia called me today asking my opinion and advice regarding a situation that is really close to the above. The only difference is the guy is giving hopes to her and his current girlfriend also knows about this. ( Yep it's a weird situation). The guy has told my friend that if he breaks up with his current girl he will come to her. And my friend was asking me what she should do .. should she wait for him to break up with his current girlfriend or move on..

What I said to her was to do the 2nd one which she is willing to do ( though she doesn't like to do it cos she thinks he is telling the truth when he says to her he loves her very much too) but the guy is not giving up and always keeps on sending her those lovey dovey messages which has stopped her from taking the correct decision and move on.

Why do people do this? why do people don't care about others and think of themselves only? why they want all when they got one ? these were the questions that were running on my head at this time. I really didn't know what to say to my friend but just listen and give her one advice where I said to her "Don't Keep Hopes.. He Won't come back to you again.." ( It is kinda obvious since the guy and his current girlfriend is in Sri Lanka and my friend is in Aussie)

Cupid do some strange things sometimes. They always forget the ones who are single ( best example Me..) but goes and find some innocent soul who has been battered once by some one to get battered again. I know the dude is using my friend as the "spare wheel " but sadly she doesn't understands him and his petty talk has taken over her correct,rational way of thinking..

Love is such a complicated thing.. U don't know where it ends up.. as I end this post I like to say one thing

"Matters of the Heart is Very Complicated.. So Act Wise.. Without Giving into your Emotions.. "

Have a Great Week Ahead Everyone..

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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A Love Story with Songs...

There were two lovers who were madly in love with each other. The girl loved the guy soo much and always told him that she loves him, by saying

"You think I'd leave your side baby?
you know me better than that
you think I'd leave you down when you're down on your knees?
I wouldn't do that.. "

The guy also loved her soo much and said to her the following everytime he saw her.

"I'll be your dream I'll be your wish
I'll be your fantasy.
I'll be your hope I'll be your love
Be everything that you need."


Both of them trusted each other and all was going good until the guy was introduced by his boss to his new secretary. she was pretty and sexy and the guy's head was going marbles as he started to wonder who she is. He went to his boss and asked this..

" Who's that girl?
(La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la) "

The Boss responded by saying

"Eve's that girl
(La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la)"


The guy was infatuated by her beauty and knowing he already has a girlfriend he started to flirt with her and then ask her out. One day they had too much of drinks at a pub and things went on from this to that and they ended up in a near by hotel. Before he went though he did make a call to his girlfriend saying

" Listen baby, I'm sorry
Just wanna tell you don't worry
I will be late
Don't stay up and wait for me
I said again, your dropping out
My battery is low
Just so you know
We're going to a place nearby
Gotta go"

After saying that he switched offed the phone as he and his secretary had a night like no other as the guy was singling with ecstasy saying

"Sexbomb sexbomb yourre my sexbomb
And baby you can turn me on.."

But the gal was beginning to get suspicious as she has noticed this change of her man sometime back. She asked him about it and persuaded him to tell the truth The guy promised to the gal that he won't betray her again. The gal still loved him and decided to give him a second chance.


One Night while the Guy and the Gal were together. The Guy got a call from his Secretary , He didn't know what to do for a moment but then picked up his phone and said this..

"Honey why are you calling me so late?
It's kinda hard to talk right now
Honey why are you crying, is everything okay?
I gotta whisper 'cause I can't be too loud

Well, my girl's in the next room
Sometimes I wish she was you
I guess we never really moved on "

One thing he didn't know that his gal was listening to the whole phone call. She came out from the bed room with tears and anger and said this to the guy

"get out (leave) right now
it's the end of you and me
it's too late (now) and I can't wait for you to be gone
cause I know about her (move)
and I wonder (why) how I bought all the lies
you said that you would treat me right
but you were just a waste of time (waste of time) "

The guy knew he cannot do anything more but tried to convince his lover by trying one more time by saying

"Please forgive me I know not what I do
Please forgive me I can't stop lovin' you
Don't deny me
This pain I'm going through
Please forgive me
If I need ya like I do
Please believe me
Every word I say is true
Please forgive me I can't stop loving you "

But the gal has had enough and said to the guy for one last time as she walked off closing the door..

"
I tried so hard and got so far
But in the end it doesn't even matter
I had to fall to lose it all
But in the end it doesn't even matter
I've put my trust in you
Pushed as far as I can go
And for all this
There's only one thing you should know"

And said Good Bye...!

The End..


Songs in the Story (In Order)

By Your Side - Sade
Truly Madly Deeply - Savage Garden
Who's That Girl? - Eve
The Call - Backstreet Boys
Sex Bomb - Tom Jones
Lips of an Angel - Hinder
JOJO- Leave ( Get Out) - JoJo
Please forgive me - Bryan Adams
In the End - Linkin Park

Until Next Time..

~Peace~

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Buddhism .. A Teaching of Negativity ??

I am a Buddhist by Birth and a Devoted Buddhist too. I love my religion and I am glad I was born as a Buddhist because it has taught me a lot of lessons in life and to find true happiness whenever troubles and sorrows have come through.

BUT sometimes, sometimes.. I get these doubts about the teachings of Lord Buddha I know its a sin to have doubts but as a person who always try to find the reason behind every thinking rationally I thought of blogging about some of the things I really don't understand.

Once I attended this sermon and this Buddhist Monk was telling us that Buddhism is a religion that tell you how to make your afterlife (life after death) a joyful one filled with prosperity and never ending happiness(which in the end comes down to Nirvana). I agree with that point too, but the point I don't understand is do we have to sacrifice everything we are doing now to get this eternal happiness? Should we live a negative life by not doing the things we love and enjoy in doing life just to have a happy afterlife ?

I was in doubt when I again during a sermon another Monk explained that Lord Buddha's teachings doesn't say that you should NOT STOP DOING the things you want to do in life. BUT you should do it AT A LIMIT. I agree with that point too but again
What is the Limit ? Can we as Normal Human Beings identify a limit for the things we like to do in life??

Most Buddhist's I know finds it very difficult to live according to the 5 main Sil quotes ( Pan Sil) and this is because as normal human beings we do give in to emotions, attachments and relationships we live with. When you again look at the teachings you see that it means you should detach from these attachments, emotions and relationships as much as you can otherwise you cannot gain happiness.

Can you do that ? I mean as Normal Human Beings can you stop loving your parents and grand parents? stop appreciating and caring for your friends? etc. Can you just live alone like a man who is stuck in an elevator that doesn't work but does have a small hole so that they can still breath and survive but gets forgotten by the world ??

One thing is true though. If you commit sins you are gonna suffer through Karma so understanding this is a must if you want to be happy in the end. But yet again if you just stay away from doing the things you love will you gain happiness? Isn't there room for happiness in the normal life at all?

I have seen so many monks who say they are devoted followers of Buddhist just fight for seats in the Bus, or always ask the other followers(who are not monks) to make this kinda food for Alms Givings and not this kinda food etc. Now what would happen to these kinda Monks? will they get "Nibbana" by living a life that they say is the life of Buddhism but reality it is not ? How would small children seeing this would react ? Won't they think its easy to be a monk and get the food and drinks than earning money to get their ends meat ??

I think you will understand now the point I am trying to get across. Its just though we live according to Religion in reality we cannot live according to it 100 percent. We are normal people so it does make sense but when you look at the teachings again every sin has its consequence even if the sin is done with a good presence of mind and to help another person. (ex: A friend stealing a pen and giving to you to write for an exam cos he doesn't have an extra one and nobody is willing to give an extra one even though they have it)

So we can see that some teachings of Buddhism are really hard to understand and sometimes when we look at some teachings it does point to negativity. This can be seen in other religions too but as I don't know about them I will not talk about it here.

I guess we gotta look at the bigger picture and think twice before we do anything in life and relate it to the teaching of our religions ( in my case Buddhism) but as normal human beings can we actually do it everytime? if we don't do it won't we be able to attain the blissful eternal happiness we call "Nibbana"??

This question is a dilemma and I think it would remain to be a question forever.

Whatever said and done I must stress one thing yet again. "I have a no offense against Buddhism or other religions. I am a Devoted Buddhist too and I am Honored and Privileged for being One.."

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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Reasons why you should NEVER !!! have Sex with a Committed Girl/ Boy...

Ok most people I know ( guys I mean) are desperate to get laid.I guess its the reaction of the hormones of something that makes guys want to get laid or do something with the ladies whenever they get a chance or opportunity. This situation can be commonly seen mostly among teenagers around the world ( including Sri Lanka) but young adults and adults do it too. I think its ok if you are doing it with your girlfriend or wife( 24/7 , 365) but the problem comes when you stray and do it with a girl who is taken and is married. This post discusses the reasons on why you should never have sex with a girl who has a boyfriend or in the worst case is married. Note that by meaning sex I am covering all the kinds of sex two people can have. (this includes Kissing , Phone Sex , Hard Sex , Random Play , flirting (Yes I think its kinda of a sex you do it with your senses) etc etc etc.(I ain't gonna define everything =))

So what are the reasons here it is.. (Note that this applies to Ladies too the other way around. (change girl with boy) I have written these reasons so they can get an Idea too.)

1.If you do it once, the girl will come back for more.They don't care what happens to you they only need the pleasure you are giving cos they are sick of their boyfriends /husbands pleasure they get everyday.

2. They will not come to save you if you get caught to their boyfriends/husbands ( remember the movie "Unfaithful" ?) and they always leave some kinda evidence so their boyfriends/husbands will find out anyway though you will think they won't.

3. If you do it once you won't be able to resist the girl and will all the things in your power to find her back and do it again ( which is again a crime and could lead to allegations of rape or murder..)

4. Its a freaking sin you morons find a girlfriend and do it don't do it with another ones girl. YOU CANNOT FALL IN LOVE WITH A GAL WHO BELONGS TO SOMEONE ELSE !!

5. They are soo many fish in the sea. Why do u want to do it with a girl who belongs to someone else? your partner will come when you need her to so just BE PATIENT !!.

6. "Sex is just Pleasure Love is what that Matter "" remember that when you next time think of having sex with a girl who is taken.

7. Sex is caused by negativity , frustration , anxiety and loneliness if you think Sex can solve that problem ITS WRONG !!! YOU ARE DEAD WRONG !! and if you think you can do it with any girl has a boyfriend, then YOU ARE 100 PERCENT DEAD DEAD WRONG!!

So there you go some reasons why you should NEVER think of having Sex with a girl who is committed or married. Its unethical and against the law and as I said once it could lead to minor problems and consequences.

Control your Emotions... Do a favor to yourself and to others and find a Girlfriend or a Boyfriend you trust to do it. Sex is the culmination of trust and love and if you are not doing it without these two essential vital ingredient well I can say only one thing

May God Have Mercy On your Beloved Souls !!

This post was done just for awareness purposes and it is not written to offend anyone. Its a problem I see in this world ( and in Sri Lanka) today so thought of writing about it so everyone get to know about it.

Let me know what you think..Any Comments are Accepted cos I am open to anything and this post I am sure will cause a stir among every blogger in the Sri Lankan Blogsphere.=) Cos I know most people cannot live without it. whats it? SEX !!!

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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Down Memory Lane & Something More...

Ok peeps, a friend requested me to spill 25 random facts about me as it has become a major phenomena in the BlogSpace. So here it is .. 25 Random Facts About me.. Enjoy !! =D


1. I have been wearing glasses for 16 years now. It all started when I was in year 3 in school when I went for swimming. Some chlorine that was put to the pool became a allergy to my eyes and since then I have had problems with my sight where I have the problem of being short sighted. The doctors have told there is no cure for this so 24/7 365 I wear my glasses and only take them off when I go to sleep or when I want to wash my face.. Its kinda like one of my body parts now =)


2. I have done some crazy things when I was in school. The most memorable one is happened when I was in year 6 where I knocked down a teacher( accidentally of course) and fractured one of her legs. They let me get away after a warning(since I was honest and told my headmaster that I was the one who did it) but after that day I was famous being the "kid who broke a teachers leg " =D

3. As a kid I was afraid of girls but later on as I grew up and got more interactive with them (Thanks to Uni) my fear has gone away. ( Only 98 percent tho hehe)

4. I have the ability to write poems in both Sinhala and English which is an ability I am kinda proud of =). My Atthamma used to say those days that one our uncles ( who has passed away even before I was born) had the ability to write poems as well and his genes have somehow come to me. I have read some of his poems and they wee really beautiful and when it comes to writing poetry he was my first influence. =)

5. I used to have 3 awesome best friends during school days. 2 Guys were Muslim and the other A Buddhist we were like brothers and still our friendship is going strong though we hardly talk or meet these days due to various boundaries that we cannot cross.

6. I loved music from my childhood and I loved playing the organ and perfected it to the best of my ability ever since I got an Organ from my Uncle for my Birthday. I have this ability to listen to a song and play that song on Organ and here also Atthamma was my greatest fan and advisor as she always loved the music I played at home and during my music classes. My Favorite tunes that I played on the Organ was
Barbie gal , Sealed with a Kiss and Ran Tikiri Sina. =)

7. My favorite sport is Cricket and I am addicted to it =). Wanted to be a cricketer when I was a kid but never really went far with that goal because of my Studies.

8. I did my O/L's twice since I got an S for Maths during my first exam.(Other results were awesome tho I did it just to have a good image on my final certificate without letting a "S" ruining my other overall results) I got through the next time with a "C". I guess u know now MATHS was my most Hated subject during school and I still "HATE IT".

9. I am a Scorpio and it seems its an Unusual thing cos most people I know who are born on early October have a different star sign. However I am glad that I ended up being a Scorpio rather than something else. =)

10. I have had crushes for the fairer sex ever since I went to Nursery. (Now don't think I am a Pervert :P its just an innocent crush hehe)

11. I love rice and curry and I hate String Hoppers and Hoppers ( Only eat them when I don't have anything else to eat.)

12. I love chocolate biscuit can eat 1 or 2 packets all by myself in an hour. =D

13. I used to have many Favorite Drinks. Fanta and Portello comes first followed by Coke and Milo but the One I like the Most is the Morning Glass of Milk my Mom makes for me. =D

14. I love watching any kinda sport as long as its exciting. (I don't play much tho except for Cricket which I play here and there with my friends and with Malli and the rest of the cousins during the past =))

15. I had this female friend whom I knew for 10 years only through emails and sms.
I never got to see her (not even a picture) and we never even heard each others voices until the day she went to Australia for her further studies where she called me to say "Goodbye ." I have never been in a serious relationship but I think I can safely say that She was my first Girl Friend.

16. I am addicted to TV since I was a Kid. The percentage slightly got lower when the computer came in but still I am addicted to it like hell..

17. I lost my first mobile while coming in the bus. ( Since then I have become extra careful when taking my phone during the bus rides.)

18. During my school days I used to have around 10 pairs of glasses cos I was not careful with them and broke them regulary..(Once when I was playing cricket in school I was going to take a catch when I missed the ball and it hit straight on my glasses the glasses did break but it did save my eyes.. =) )

19. From the time I was a Kid I loved to Smile and I still do =).

20. My first favorite boy bands were Backstreet Boys and Boyzone . Girl Group were Spice Girls and Solid Harmony

21. I have been lost and found 3 times. The first time was when I got lost in Viharamahadevi Park and was dropped home safely by a couple I hardly knew, saw for the first time and have never seen again.( you don't find like this nowadays na) My parents thought that they will never find me and was crying all the way when they came home , But when they got home they were surprised and happy to see me sleeping in my bed as if nothing has happened. =) (I did get a good thrashing the next day though but it took two more incidents for me to learn the lesson correctly =) )

22.I always had the temptation to kiss a girl on her lips and see how it feels like.

23.I love making friends and can make new ones with just a short conversation with them which spans around 10 to 15 minutes max. =)

24. I am not that much of an outgoing person and Love spending time indoors at home doing the things I love to do =).

25.Other than the hobbies I have mentioned above I also have a unique collection of Stamps and Coins which I am proud of having and a hobby I still continue to do whenever I am free. =)


So there you go 25 Random facts about me. Guess you are one step closer now in knowing the me and hope u like it =). Oh I got another list going on as well =).

Here are my all time favorite tracks that I love listening to over and over again.
Let me know your pick and see if your favorite is there 2 =).

1) Love me for a Reason - BoyZone
2) As long as you Love Me - Backstreet Boys
3) 2 become 1 - Spice Girls
4) Invisible Man - 98 Degrees
5) What I want is What I got - Westlife
6) If you were Mine - Bread and Breakfast
7) True Blue - Madonna
8) Right Here Waiting for you - Richard Marks
9) Inside - Stillskin
10)Two Princes - Spin Doctors
11)Mmm Mmm Mmm Mmm - Crash Test Dummies
12)Breakfast at Tiffany's - Deep Blue Something
13)In the End - Linkin Park
14)Hanging by the Moment - Lifehouse
15)She Hates Me - Puddle of Mud
16)Chop Suey! - System of a Down
17)Kissed from a Rose - Seal
18)Don't know why - Norah Jones
19) Barbie Girl - Aqua
20) Kryptonite - 3 Doors Down
21) What's my Age Again - Blink 182
22) I don't wanna be - Gavin Degraw
23) Tumbtumping - Chumbawamba
24) Summer of 69 - Bryan Adams
25) Smells like Teen Spirit - Nirvana

I did a 25 of this as well so its equal now =). (my calculations are correct right? :P)

Long Post But I guess it was worth it =)

Until Next Time..

~Peace~

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Random Rantings About " Boys.. "

As promised here are the Random Rantings About Boys. :)




Boys...

Were created by God for Unknown reasons until he decided to create Girls. (It's an obvious statement I guess when we look at the first ranting about Girls)

Are thought to be Physically Superior than But most of the time are Weaker in Brains compared to Girls

Does get angry easily and most of the time have problems when it comes to controlling their emotions.

Are called "Players" when they have more than one girlfriend which most of the time increase their sex appeal and motivates more gals to get that guy to be their boyfriend

Can do anything if they have the will , courage and self confidence to do those things.

Do cry when the necessity arise, Most of them cry silently hiding from the rest mainly due to their shyness to show their real emotions and their belief of Men Don't Cry in Public. ( which is False..)

Are addicted to one of the following
Playing the Guitar,
Rock Music
Fast Cars.
The ones who are not doesn't like at least one of these things is not a Guy(Most of the time..)

Do have a liking towards other Guys just like Girls liking Girls.. How does this attraction can occur ? ( I dont know ask Elton John :P )

Are Addicted to Beer and without Beer they won't Survive.. ( Smoking comes 2nd in this list.)

Cannot live without Girls.. No matter what they say that they can live without them.

Will always try to kiss their partner on the first date itself.

Are always ready to make their own story and are naive most of the time when they get caught with another girl to their girlfriends..

and Last but not Least...

Boys will always be Boys..

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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Random Rantings About "Girls"

Girls...

Were created by God for unknown reasons until he decided to create Guys.

Are the most Prettiest as well as the most mysterious inhabitants ever to step on this world.

Can Smile like Angels and can take your breathe away but always be sure to know the reason behind the smile otherwise things could get complicated

Can be Single if they want to but always having a Boyfriend makes their value more grow high rather than the single ones.

Can Make you Happy and Sad at the same time

Can never go to the toilet Alone and always want another gal so that they get the protection the washroom demons won't eat them up

Are pleasant to talk on phone when they talk softly but when they begin to shout it quickly becomes nuisance.

Are the Most Fashionable Inhabitants alive and also the Most Spendthrift ones.

Have one feature which can attract anyone and cast a spell on them, that feature is their eyes.

Are emotional but most of the time its based on a reason.

Are always compared with many things just to explain their beauty ( ex: butterflies , roses , stars etc.)

Can gain equal success just like Men and should not be discriminated from society no matter what happens.

Are ones that Men cannot live without even they have enough Food and Numerous Vodka bottles to eat and Drink.


Stay Tuned for the Random Rantings About "Boys"

Until Next Time...

~Peace~

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"3 D Collision Course" - Episode 1 ( While on the Way to Work.. )

As always Disease bring up something unique and this time I thought of starting a Story Series for everyone of you to read and enjoy =) . Its kinda like 24 , Prison Break, Heroes etc BUT with some exceptions, which I have given below.

The stories are written based on one person named D and his two sub conscious minds named The "Devil D" and the "Angel D".

They together face various experiences and situations involving various people and situations and when they collide the story begins to roll.

Because of this fact the Series is named " 3D Collision Course" =D.

All the names , places and the stories are real and the stories are also based on real experiences.

Here is the first Episode and its called (as the heading of the post states)

3D Collision Course - While on the Way to Work

The following takes place between 7.00 a.m and 7.30 a.m at Union Place near Dialog GSM and HSBC on an early Monday Morning. D is on the way to work and on the way he sees a pretty girl working for HSBC coming towards him. He is attracted to her at once and keeps on looking at her while she slowly and slowly comes towards him.Devil D see the situation and starts talking..



Devil D - Dude that's one heck of a chick isn't she ? she is coming towards you man common talk to her and try to get her no if you can
Angel D interrupts Devil D ..

Angel D - Brother D don't listen to Devil you can't just go and ask for her number like that right ? and she is a total stranger she might hit your face with her handbag so don't do it just hurry up.. you are already 5 minutes late..

(D shakes his head , adjusts his bag and keeps on walking. He is still amazed at the pretty HSBC girl and is still checking her out while walking, He knows he should listen to Angel D but suddenly Devil D comes up again..)


Devil D - Dude common she is close to you now . Don't miss the chance man common talk with her ask her for her number who knows you might go on a date with her on Friday Night.


Angel D Interrupts..

Angel D - NO NO NO Don't do it Bro common work first girls 2nd and remember you are late.. GO GO GO

Devil D Comes up Again...

Devil D - Nope Dude don't miss this chance, will you meet her again tomorrow? No right talk to her and get her number. common man BE A PIMP !!


Angel D Comes up Again..

Angel D- NO NO NO Don't do it bro don't go go go don't stay just leave her alone

And this debate between the Angel and the Devil continues for a while when Suddenly...D SCREAMS...



D- OH !!! MY LEG ! MY LEG !! MY LEG !!!!! OH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

D falls down in to a big hole right in front of him which he has forgot to notice and has got hurt with cramps in his leg and is screaming in excruciating pain..


D - I can't walk my leg is hurt HELP HELP HELP !!

No one comes as D slowly gets up walks around a bit and get the cramp sorted out and slowly starts walking back to work. He turns around and sees the HSBC gal walking away and at this Moment Angel D comes up and says this to D


Angel D - This what I told you Brother You should have listened to me not Devil D now see what you did to yourself.. Hope you learned a lesson


Devil D is not done yet..


Devil D - ok so Angel D won this time. Lets see who wins Next time Angel D Ill be back this is not the last time you see me !!

D accepts the Angel D's lesson and goes on back to work. After going to work he reminisced the happenings in the Morning.



D - Why didn't I listen to Angel D in the firs place ?? Will Devil D will be back ? What will he do to me Next Time ??

While thinking that he carries on with his work.

What will happen to D next time?? What does Devil D got in his evil mind ?? Will Angel D be able to help D to defeat Devil D??

Stay tuned and check out the next episode of "3 D Collision Course" =D

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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