Dreams of a Child..

I was on the way home in the bus today where a small kid in the front seat was telling his mom of his dreams. He was telling how he will grow up and earn a lot of money and get two cars for him and mom. How he will buy a big house and live by his own and send mom to live with his grandma so he can live alone (this made me laugh, quite a witty kid he was =)), how he has problems with his dad's smoking and drinking and asking his mom why does he do it and swearing to mom that he will never do it at all.  Listening to the whole conversation from behind, it got me thinking..

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Living a Dream.. At Last...

Writing has been a passion of mine for a long time and finally I got a break =). Got invited to write for a website carried out some of my colleagues which I promptly accepted and today I did my first article =). As a start hhttp://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gifttp://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gifI wrote a cricket article ( yes I know I should write about something else too which I will do in the future =)) and so far the reviews are good =). I am really having a time these days doing the things I love and its really awesome =).

You can check out my article by going to the following link.

My Article

Have a Great Weekend Everyone..

Cheers !!

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Random Thursday..

Things are moving along smoothly in life these days. work , life balance is maintained though I am on call 24/7 and must say I am used to this lifestyle now.

Try my best to always find some time to do self studying and improve my knowledge. I have become addicted to reading now I feel its a good thing.

I always try to do what I love to do and making music and photography are two things which has kept me occupied during my free times and has yielded good results.


Family wedding season will begin next month and it will go on till next January. Fun and Food wise its a good thing but finding something to wear for all the occasions would be a tricky one.

What a win by Mahela and the Kochi Tuskers in the IPL yesterday over KKR. Mahela showed why he is a great captain and Shah Rukh Khan must be having a new theme song now " Kochi Kochi Hotha Hai !!"

Some small advice before I stop. "Don't go after things too much.. be patient once you have done your best. and if you did it honestly and in a good heart, good results will eventually come. "


Cheers !!

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Super Weekend..

The Past Weekend was a superb one to say the least. Fun Music and a lot of Food; It was Simple Great. Guess it will happen the same this week as well with the new year around.
Wishing Everyone a Superb Week Ahead.. =)

Cheers !!

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The Morning After Depression

Couldn't eat or sleep last night
More to Disappointment and Sadness
Guess its because I am a Die Hard Fan of our Cricket Team..
And I Believed we will go All da Way..

Who knows if I will be living in 2015?
Since the world will get has its problems from 2012
Need a distraction so Badly ..
And to make it worse..
Its back to work Tomorrow cos it's Monday..

This a Weekend I so Damn Won't to Forget !!

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Change..

You know its coming but you can't do it..
You think about it but then you feel no point of thinking about it..
Best thing to is adapt and accept
After all nothing is permanent in Life..

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Lessons from a Tragedy..

The ongoing weekend have been a one with mixed emotions for me. Its started with Friday where I got sick with a very sore cramp on my leg and fever to go with it. The excitement and joy of Sri Lanka qualifying for their 3rd straight World Cup Semi Final by thrashing a sorry English Side and also the freaking weather which is like a barbecue never going to end. But, nothing took my mind and heart off than the tragedy i heard on Friday where an accident took away the lives of 3 guys all in my brothers age.

When I heard the story for the first time I was so shocked that I couldn't even believe something like that could happen. The way the accident has occurred and after seeing the pics of their damaged vehicle, I was really sad for those boys who has just begun to enjoy their lives as young adults but had to leave the world in such tragic circumstances. Even though I am not related to them and never knew them as friends or anything, it was quite a sad story to hear and see. I was feeling sad for their parents, how are they coping with this whole incident? One day you see your son go out of the house telling them that they are going to watch the world Cup and next day they return home in a coffin.. its really sad... very very sad..


I know that you can't determine when your life would end. I might die right now while writing this blog post, death is something you cannot control. But one thing you can do is , mitigate the chances of getting death early. Why should you drive a vehicle around 200 miles per hour ? (I am scared to drive even at 60 , people may laugh at my speed but I know my limit and drive according to that) and why can't you think about your loved ones before doing anything that could be dangerous and harmful to you and your life ?

We should always remember that with great power comes great responsibility (yes its not only for Spiderman Movies). If your parents have given you the money and the freedom to enjoy life, don't MISUSE that freedom and enjoy to a limit. You should remember that there are a lot of people around who care about you and in the end when you loose, every one of your loved ones will loose too. Listen to your Parents and never Break their Heart , thats the worst crime a person can do in his /her life.

I am not a person who likes to blog about things that makes me sad but when this incident occurred i really needed to write about it since its not the first time I heard such a tragedy. There is only one advice I like to give here
"DO ENJOY LIFE, But 2 A LIMIT ".

May those 3 guys Attain Nibbana and May they/ anyone NEVER face something like this in their lives again.

Have a Gr8 Week Ahead Peeps.

Cheers !!

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Unfortunate...

I've been blessed with a lot of friends. But sadly I don't get a chance to spend quality time with them and whenever they ask me to join them in most circumstances I have to reject.

This happens due to various reasons, sometimes its work , sometimes its money and sometimes its just my body giving up on me with tiredness and anxiety.

I am not blaming anyone for this. Only I can change this trend; and I am going to / I will change it no matter what.

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If Only..

The Week goes faster and the weekend goes slow
This world would be a better place.

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Just Wanted to Say..

I am Alive..=) been through a lot since the last time I blogged. It has just made me the person I am today. Hopeful, Happy. Motivated, Desires, Goals in Mind I've been missing those days I used to write and write =). Hopefully this would be a start =). Hope all of my blogger friends are doing great =).

Kit

Cheers !! =)

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In Honor of Love..

Is my New Blog where I decided to express my feelings about the special feeling adored by all and cannot live without. It will contain mostly poems that I have written about this great feeling over the years and I think those will get more meaning since I have also become a person who has finally got the chance to feel what Love is All About =).

You can go to the blog through the following URL.

In Honor of Love

Do note that this does not mean that I will be quitting this blog. This will be my first love and I will continue to write here just as I did in the Past =D.

November was a tough month to me and it taught me a lot of lessons. December will be a challenge and I am up for it.. Let see what happens.. I am not gonna be defeated.. I will WIN !!.

Have a Great Rest of the Week Ahead.. =)

Until Next Time ..

~Peace~

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Loosing My Mind..

Certain things in my Life is not going my way lately. Chike!! its hard. Sometimes I feel helpless , frustrated , mad and upset because stuff like my employment situation, my conscience etc etc is pulling me down to hell and its really hard to keep afloat.

The only thing that gives me strength is the Love and Support I am getting from my Family , Friends and the Girl I Love so much. But I don't want to disappoint them and be a bad apple.What can I do ? Where do I start ? I don't know .. It sucks .. it truly, really sucks Big Time !

Been going to the temple a lot these days just to heal myself mentally and during that time I feel really good cos it does make me feel better.

I need a change soon and I need to change myself 2. It should be sooner rather than later..

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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I Should Have Been a Lawyer...

Sirawata I should have been a Lawyer you know. I am a talkative Parrot sometimes and can break into a conversation without control and can argue till I win the whole plum.
Numerous times I have been cautioned by my Parents my Friends by telling "Dude Control yourself , Putha Mokada Mei ??"or by pulling my leg or shirt without the notice of others. But the truth of the fact is that I am not short of a word to prove the things I believe on and I would go the whole distance by talking to prove it and convince others (Even in some cases its wrong.).

Once I had the desire to be a lawyer and almost sat for the Law Entrance Exam. In the end I realized it was not the job for me since I had a passion for other things such as IT and writing =D.( I am glad I made that choice =D).

Still I am not short of a word.Last Night I was arguing with a bunch of Indians regarding the Test Match and I only stopped because they never replied me back =D. Guess they knew they cannot talk with 1 Sri Lankan who had the balls to show them that we are not pussies like them =D.

The Talking Parrot Won =D and Maybe in the Next Life Time I can be a Lawyer and win some cases and make the whole world happy =D.

Hope everyone is having a Fabulous Week. =D

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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Tits and Bits and Other News..

HALO bACK... =D. Watsup Friends ? Hope you all are doing Good =D. I have been away for around 2 months from blogging and Its been a very decisive but crazy 2 months for me. All in all everything is sorted out ( well most to be exact) and things are again going smooth for me. I believe that everything happens for a reason and so I live according to that. Here is a summary of what I have been up2 during the last 2 months.. =D.

* First the Bad News. I gave my resignation to my current Workplace. It was a decision I should have taken long time back but finally after a lot of controversy inside and outside the office premises I decided to quit this place at the end of this Month. ( November). I will miss some good people over there but the majority is bad and total backstabbers. All I am saying is I am moving on.. and I am Glad about it =D

* I "ALMOST" have a Girlfriend =D.Why I say Almost is because she has not given me the green light yet but just the Orange. But I have a feeling she will give me the Green Light very soon =D. I didn't think I would be able to be a one woman man but some how I am doing it.She is wonderful beautiful and Awesome and I hope this would work out in the end =D.


* I have been driving like a maniac these days =D. I am not relying on Speed and ALWAYS thrive to be Safe. Damn I Love Driving. Specially on a Sunday Afternoon =D.

* Been Exercising a Lot. Thriving to get a Six Pack and some Agility to my Legs =D So far So Good I must say.. =D

* Last Monday was my Grandmothers 1st year Death Anniversary. I still remember that day and it still brings tears to my eyes. Yet the pirith ceremony and the Alms Giving was a Success so I am happy we could do the best for her though she is not with us anymore.

* I have got some oppurtunities to improve my Writing and make use of it more =D. Will let you know all the details asap =D.

Hope Everyone is Good. It's Good to be Back.. =D

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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I will Do anything for Love.. but I WON'T Do that...

Things I WONT do when searching for Love..


Go after my Best Friend's Girl though deep inside I feel I am attracted to her..

Ask my Best Girlfriend Out. Friends becoming Lovers don't ALWAYS work.

Cry, Cry, Cry when a girl rejects me asking her to give me another chance (Though I will try to fix the things she does not like about me so she will feel the same way about me )

Perform the Dating Advice I give to Others. ( It never works for the Tutor. It Always works for the Student )

Change my Good Beliefs , Qualities and Attitudes to win Lady Love.( It's not worth it)

And Finally..

Go After Love.. Sometimes Patience is the way to open the door of the most Unreachable Heart.. :)

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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Art of An Amature..

In the past I used to draw.I was able to draw people looking at them or their pics which gave me much joy when I had nothing to do. I didn't seriously take note of my this ability of mine though my Grandma used to persuade me to do it more often.. Today is her Birthday and as a tribute to her I decided to use this talent and draw some portraits of my friends :) Here are the Results.. :)


















It took me two days to complete these drawings But when I see the results I think the effort was worth it :). Glad I can pay tribute to Atthamma like this on her Birthday and I hope our artists Lost Soul and Black like these 2 :).

Have a great week Ahead Everyone and Keep on Smiling :).

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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LOOOOVEEEEEE ..

So our dearest Black decided to tag me on the popular post about "Love" :), Its the first time someone decided to tag me on a topic so I didn't want to disappoint her :). So here are my thoughts about Love.. :D

Love is..

* watching a cricket match which Sri Lanka plays with my dad and shouting together when a wicket falls or we win and be sad together when we loose.

* telling my mom about all the things happening at work and she giving me advice in how to deal with them

* playing cricket with my bro in the garage and breaking all the glasses of the windows of our neighbors

* giving my sis tips about guys and latest fashion trends..

* the times I spent with my Grandma (Moms) when she was there and the time I spend with my other Grandma (Dads)in Tangalle.

* a Bug that bites you where the wound stays without healing..

* like a well you fall into it but u don't wanna get out of it

* the feelings you share and times you spend with you friends..

* something I have never fallen (I think) but hoping I would someday.

* What you Want. but Won't Get Easily.

* the feeling that keeps us all Alive , Happy and Smiling.

Thank you Black for the Tag. It really bought up some sweet memories that coincidentally I love and makes me happy. :D

Until Next Time..

~Peace~

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Breaking the Silence..

I am back :D. I haven't blogged for about a month before today and thought of taking a break since I thought I was revealing too much of myself and also got hectic with work to the max. But come on.. how can I stop blogging right?? :) Its in my veins so I decided to " Break the Silence " :D.

During the past month I have been through a lot.Work was hectic and difficult. Made quick decisions and suffered bad consequences because of that. Got mad and frustrated and also sick at the same time. It was a difficult month and I was beginning to get worried that I was going down the pit without nothing to hold on too.

Luckily I got a great family and a bunch of friends I adore like my life. They gave me the right advice and guidance and after thinking a lot about my decisions and actions and foreseeing my future, I changed my attitude and beliefs , became a hard thinker and decided to take time when making decisions. I also got more into Buddhism and I think the visit I made to Dalada Maligawa last weekend helped me a lot to heal myself and put myself back on the right path. I like to sincerely say "Thank You" to everyone and everything that helped me to get on that path in every way. :)

So how's my fellow blogger friends are doing ? I am sorry for not keeping in touch But remember I always think of you guys :D. I missed reading your blogs but now I am back u should be warned that I will be stalking you again :D.

Got some posts I really need to publish so I will do that one by one. It's good to be back. I feel my own once again :D.

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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Anger Management... How You Do it ?

Anger is one of the most feared emotions by Human Beings. An angry person can do things that he/she really doesn't want to do.. and often it ends up giving bad results rather than good ones. Sometimes it is said that long time anger is ok but the one that is always bad is being short tempered cos it makes you a monster and force you to do things that you really don't want to do. ( Believe me.. I have experience on that..).So.. it is really important to manage your Anger, at least stop it from happening often.. otherwise you will end up loosing your mind , loosing your friends . loosing the trust you worked hard to build up and more importantly. the love of the people whom you really want to love you and care about you.

What makes you Angry? If you see this Picture in this Post you will realize that. The points in that are so damn true and often those are the facts that makes you loose your temper.

So how can we control Anger? I have done many things to control myself from getting Angry.. Meditation is one solution it's good if you can meditate once a day cos it really heals your mind,stops you from thinking unnecessary things and calms you down when you feel you are getting mad.Another solution is listening to your favorite tunes when you feel that you are getting angry.. Music does heal your Soul ! so always rely on that to make you happy if you feel that you r not in a good mood and is feeling angry just about anything.. Try talking to yourself more and try to find out the outcome of the things you will do when you are angry.. will you loose a friend ? are you doing the right thing or wrong thing? can I solve this issue without being angry ? etc. This kind of talk really helps you to calm yourself during short tempered situations.. and helps you to choose the right path rather than getting mad and going on the wrong one. Also it is good to talk with a friend or a loved one you can trust about the issues you are getting mad at. Sometimes bottling up all your thoughts leads to getting Angry and Mad and it could end up being physical sometimes.. so best thing to do is talk or write down what you want to say this really helps you to heal yourself and forget the fact that you are getting mad.

Whatever said and done and No Matter how much solutions we do to manage Anger we should remember we are all human beings. Anger is part of us and we really can't live without it. I am also a person who gets mad( often in the past now its slowly decreasing..)and I have also had my own share of incidents where Anger has taken the better of me. But, I have always wanted to stop it so I have done the things I have said before to stop getting Angry. It DOES work. so do give it a try and I am sure it will work for you 2 =).

"Anger is a Monster in Disguise Waiting to Gobble you Down to Hell. Don't let it dot that..Cos You Belong in Heaven not in Hell."


Have a Great Week Ahead Everyone.. =)

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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So far So Good with the Facebook Girl and Other News..

I was amazed and happy to see all the Responses and the Good Wishes from All my Blogging Friends regarding my short love story so far with the Facebook Girl =D. I got to say that it's going gr8 so far and I hoping so much this would be the start of something great.. =) Fingers Crossed =D.

In Other News..

I been sick lately and I am so damn upset cos it always happens on Weekends.. Missed two days of work last week but got a 5 day Holiday hehe. Still it's not good but the Good News is the Sugar situation is not that bad as I thought but got to be careful =D

I just love Twitter.. Just want to Tweet even when I go to the toilet sometimes =D. Still.. it's heavy on the Phone Bill so I am controlling myself =D

Guys who think they have a bad complexion should try " Fair and Handsome ". Believe me.. It Works.. =D

Glad that Mahela got a Century at last.. Superb Batting.. Hoping he would get More.. =D

Just did some pretty silly things over the last weekend .. but now I have changed which has made me Happy =D

Two friends are leaving for USA soon and Malli will be going soon 2.. :(

Nangi is getting ready for A/L's wish her All the Best for her exams and I can't believe she is done with school 2..

I believe that Life is a Challenge and Everyone needs Love and from a Special One at that.. and I think I am feeling those emotions which I only used to see in movies till now =)

Have a Gr8 Weekend Peeps and join me on Twitter .. I assure you it's much more fun than following Ashton Kutcher =D

Until Next Time

~Peace~

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