A Love Story with Songs...

There were two lovers who were madly in love with each other. The girl loved the guy soo much and always told him that she loves him, by saying

"You think I'd leave your side baby?
you know me better than that
you think I'd leave you down when you're down on your knees?
I wouldn't do that.. "

The guy also loved her soo much and said to her the following everytime he saw her.

"I'll be your dream I'll be your wish
I'll be your fantasy.
I'll be your hope I'll be your love
Be everything that you need."


Both of them trusted each other and all was going good until the guy was introduced by his boss to his new secretary. she was pretty and sexy and the guy's head was going marbles as he started to wonder who she is. He went to his boss and asked this..

" Who's that girl?
(La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la) "

The Boss responded by saying

"Eve's that girl
(La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la)"


The guy was infatuated by her beauty and knowing he already has a girlfriend he started to flirt with her and then ask her out. One day they had too much of drinks at a pub and things went on from this to that and they ended up in a near by hotel. Before he went though he did make a call to his girlfriend saying

" Listen baby, I'm sorry
Just wanna tell you don't worry
I will be late
Don't stay up and wait for me
I said again, your dropping out
My battery is low
Just so you know
We're going to a place nearby
Gotta go"

After saying that he switched offed the phone as he and his secretary had a night like no other as the guy was singling with ecstasy saying

"Sexbomb sexbomb yourre my sexbomb
And baby you can turn me on.."

But the gal was beginning to get suspicious as she has noticed this change of her man sometime back. She asked him about it and persuaded him to tell the truth The guy promised to the gal that he won't betray her again. The gal still loved him and decided to give him a second chance.


One Night while the Guy and the Gal were together. The Guy got a call from his Secretary , He didn't know what to do for a moment but then picked up his phone and said this..

"Honey why are you calling me so late?
It's kinda hard to talk right now
Honey why are you crying, is everything okay?
I gotta whisper 'cause I can't be too loud

Well, my girl's in the next room
Sometimes I wish she was you
I guess we never really moved on "

One thing he didn't know that his gal was listening to the whole phone call. She came out from the bed room with tears and anger and said this to the guy

"get out (leave) right now
it's the end of you and me
it's too late (now) and I can't wait for you to be gone
cause I know about her (move)
and I wonder (why) how I bought all the lies
you said that you would treat me right
but you were just a waste of time (waste of time) "

The guy knew he cannot do anything more but tried to convince his lover by trying one more time by saying

"Please forgive me I know not what I do
Please forgive me I can't stop lovin' you
Don't deny me
This pain I'm going through
Please forgive me
If I need ya like I do
Please believe me
Every word I say is true
Please forgive me I can't stop loving you "

But the gal has had enough and said to the guy for one last time as she walked off closing the door..

"
I tried so hard and got so far
But in the end it doesn't even matter
I had to fall to lose it all
But in the end it doesn't even matter
I've put my trust in you
Pushed as far as I can go
And for all this
There's only one thing you should know"

And said Good Bye...!

The End..


Songs in the Story (In Order)

By Your Side - Sade
Truly Madly Deeply - Savage Garden
Who's That Girl? - Eve
The Call - Backstreet Boys
Sex Bomb - Tom Jones
Lips of an Angel - Hinder
JOJO- Leave ( Get Out) - JoJo
Please forgive me - Bryan Adams
In the End - Linkin Park

Until Next Time..

~Peace~

Dance in the Rain..

As lightning strikes
And the clouds gather around

Rain drops falling
As the sun hide in the clouds

Yeah Baby it's raining again
As i go outside and dance in the rain

I dance and dance
As the rain falls on my head

Dancing to the tunes of
Justin Timberlake

The Umbrella in One Hand
As my shoes tap away

I just dance all the way
till the dawn of day

I move around
I jump so high

Lightning Strikes
As I try to touch the sky

I dance and sway
letting my pains go away

And though I know
I will get sick someday

I will always and forever
Dance in the Rain...


Until Next Time..
~Peace~

The Six List - The Bad Side of Facebook

Its been a while since I did the last Six List but I thought I would do one today. I was looking for a topic and thought of writing about this one which I really wanted to write about a few weeks back. I am sure most of you are using Facebook just like me. But lately I have found its good side going down the drain. Here are top 6 bad things I have found in Facebook. Check it out and let me know what you think =).

Number 6 - So many friends but do u really know them ?



When Mr.Mark Zukerberg first developed Facebook his intention was to build to a network to help people stay connected with their friends and relatives. After Facebook became a worldwide phenomena that idea has since changed and people do add random people as friends today. If someone sees someone on the road they search for their name and add them on facebook (specially if it's a pretty girl or a cute guy) and try to get to know them better.. Is this Good ? I don't think so.. Facebook is not a bloody dating site. You got soo many sites like that but Facebook is not. Sadly that situation is happening to Facebook and this comes at Number 6 on the list.


Number 5 - Sooo Many Applications and Invitations Do We Need Them ?



This has been a problem ever since I began to use Facebook and I guess u will agree on this too. Friends sending soooo many application invites and it was a bloody nuisance for a long long time. Thankfully the Facebook developers realized that and included an "Ignore All" option which has made life soo much easier but yet the applications invites never seem to stop. So this is another bad side of Facebook and it comes at Number 5.

Number 4 - Bad Bad Chat Application



Facebook was a website that was simple and nice but they thought of making that simplicity more simple by adding a chat application which sits pretty in the bottom right corner of the website. I agree on their idea but they have not put a lot of thought to the design of this chat application. The messages doesn't reach the others quickly and also people dont know if their friends r really online or not online. Further it;s kinda bloody annoying when u try to talk to with your friends and they don't respond. So because of this bad design the Chat application in Facebook comes at Number 4 in the list.


Number 3 - Constant Layout Changes... Give me a Break Guys..





Ok into the Top 3 and Number 3 is something that most of us hate. The constant facebook layout changes has made the website's simplicity go haywire and most people are leaving the website than joining it. Its ok if the changes are good but its NOT.All the things that people use to do with Facebook like writing on a friends wall , commenting on a picture has become soo complicated and each of these tasks need a tutorial of their own. Just check out the link below and you will see how facebook has become from a simple website to a complicated one just through the profile change through the years.

Facebook through the Years

And the funny things is soo many groups have been made as well just to make complains which i think is pathetic cos its just useless. So this bad thing about Facebook comes in Number 3 in the list.


Number 2 - Facebook for Sex ?? NO NO NO



Ok this was something I never expected and sadly it has become true as well. Facebook never had this problem but some developers who build applications have decided to do it their own way and have made Facebook a place for sex games. I cannot believe that MZ didn't notice this. True most people like it but dont they know that children use this site too ? and how it will affect them ? aren't they making room for Pedo's to appear and use Facebook as a perfect place for their crimes ? This is not good and is a very serious issue that people who use Facebook must be aware of. and remember it might be fun but it does have serious consequences so this is the 2nd Bad thing I find in Facebook.


Number 1 - Fake Profiles... Yuk !!


Facebook




Hi5


This shit comes at Number 1. Just see what I found on Facebook a few weeks a back a dude in hi5 ( yeah i still use it) send me a friend request I just browsed his profile and saw the pics and it looked cos I think I got a request on facebook from the same person with the same pic BUT WITH A DIFFERENT NAME (Don't Believe me ? see the pics Above ..)

so what is this ?? why people doing this ?? are they this jobless to create fake profiles and show off their identity ? and what they are trying to achieve from this ?? This is not a good thing to anyone who is using any of the above sites and its not good for social networking as a whole as the amount of trust you can put on people becomes very very limited. Further more seriously this is a CYBER CRIME so do keep on watch for these kinda people and profiles peeps cos when it hits you it hits hard and specially ladies do take a note of this they are "AFTER YOU " So this junk comes at Number 1 in my list and its an Important One so be aware my friends specially if you are an Addict to Facebook just like me..

So that's the List..

Have a Super Duper Weekend All

Until Next Time...

~Peace~

Insomnia...

I kinda not been myself lately. I mean its like I got something going inside by mind which has made the things I feel.. I do.. I see.. unclear and a total mystery. Though I am showing an "ok" vibe to the outside deep down there is something that is burning me. these emotions mixed with sadness , frustration, tiredness , loneliness etc etc is piling up on my head and is causing slow but steady damage which I doing my freaking best to avoid by not staying alone . by blogging, by doing things I love to do.

Still there is some problem and I know it. I haven't gone out for sometime now you know to have some fun one mega day of fun fun fun. I was not an outgoing regular from the start but I did go out whenever I wanted to with friends or without friends. I even went once to watch a movie alone sharing three seats in the cinema all by myself and had a mega time.But now I cannot do anything I don't even go to the supermarket I only go for work and come home which in reality sucks really sucks but why cannot I go out ? well I got this fear about going out the current security situation in the country has created a fear in my mind. I went to Kandy to see the Tooth Relic of Lord Buddha a few weeks back I was scared to go to it due to the security concerns but my parents dragged me off which in the end was really good thing they did cos I got to see something amazing that lasts a lifetime. But what I heard the next day was scary a person was caught having a bomb near Dalada Maligawa and 3 people have lost their lives. This got me panicking what if I have gone on that day ? what if it happened the day I went ?? these thoughts have kept me scared right throughout till today and has created a phobia in my mind which has prevented me from going out to parties , dinners and trips which my friends have invited me which anti climaxed in me loosing some friends I thought were close to me.

I have also been thinking of my family a lot lately. I see these dreams of my grandma who passed away in November everyday. I think about my Brother with whom I don't get to speak to regularly and when I can it lasts for just 10 minutes ( FUCK AMERICA !!) and also my dad , mom and sis with whom I don't get to spend some quality time due to the busyness of our lives. its frustrating , its sad and its pathetic..

Also I got these erotic feelings stuck in my head as well. Whenever I see a gal who is pretty my mind try to give me the wrong interpretations. It paint's a picture which is sometimes erotic sometimes nasty and sometimes romantic. Lately it has given me these signs that says that I have a crush on a fellow blogger in the Sri Lankan Blogsphere. A CRUSH ON A BLOGGER?? WITHOUT EVEN SEEING THE PERSON ? it could be right it could be right.. maybe I have fallen for the way she writes and has created that emotional atrachment that makes me read her blog everyday.. if its regarding that then the crush is totally ok for me .. I would love or marry her today if the crush is like that =D but I think its not like that .. I think its more than that of blogging.. it could be something else .. or nothing at all.. damn I dont know.. my mind is playing games with me again..

Even the song list I have in my phone strangely defines the way I am feeling right now. Here are the songs I have in my phone right now I am sure when u see that you can get an idea too.

Shinedown - Staring down the barrel of a 45

AlterBridge - Open Your Eyes

Lil Wayne - Lolipop

Robbie Williams - Feel

Shindown - In Memory

Powderfinger My Happiness

The Calling - Wherever You Will Go

Papa Roach - Scars


The most weird thing is each of the above songs defines what I am feeling right now. its like my mind is telling me to listen to these songs over and over again and though i like the songs very very much this has created a major dilemma in my head and is soooo confusing as well..

Anyways in a positive note I think these things r happening to me for a reason . A reason which could define the rest of my life forever. I got these major dreams in my mind that I want to accomplish sooo much and I think these things are making me to realize these dreams by focusing on them, having a less number of friends whom I can trust and rely on.. having the backing of my family whom I love more than anything and having a gal who will come to me someday without a sign( who knows it could be this blogger whom I have this crush on =D). well if that's what my mind wants for me "ILL ACCEPT THAT" and "I WILL DO THAT "and whatever happens "I AM NOT GONNA STOP" and when the mindset is right "I WILL CHASE MY DREAMS AND BE WHOM I WANNA BE" I was born in this world for a reason and I will define that reason and do my part to make myself happy and make others happy who are dependent on me to be happy.


I WILL REALIZE MY DREAMS I am sure about that and its the ideal time to start I guess without worrying too much about this Insomnia Attacks..

However to realize my dreams I need to get some good Sleep first and dream in my Sleep =D. I haven't had a good sleep since the last weekend and that has also this insomnia situation and has not helped me during work as well..

So "1st Sleep , 2nd Get Up and 3rd Achieve Your Dreams" that's my motto for the moment =D.

Wish Me Luck and Here's for a New Beginning...

Until Next Time

~Peace~

A Song for our Bloggers ...

As the series of the Bloggers continue, This week I decided to dedicate a Song for each of my dearest blogger friends. I don't know if this is your favorite song or not but I think each of it defines you perfectly.. Hope u Like them and Enjoy !! =)

DeeCee


Foo Fighters - Walking After You

Sachintha


Travis Barker/Soulja Boy - "Crank That"

Gehan

Train - Drops of Jupiter

Sabby


Duffy - Mercy

The Whackster

Goo Goo Dolls - Iris

Lost Princess


Linkin Park /Jay Z - Numb/Encore

Chavie

Papa Roach - Last Resort

Lady Divine

Heart - Alone

Black

Madonna - Frozen

The UnSpoken


Cyndie Lauper - Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

NB

Framing Hanley - Lolipop

Jerry

Gavin Degraw - I Don't Wanna Be

RealSkullZero

Breaking Benjamin - Diary of Jane

PassionatelyPatient

The Heights- How do you talk to an Angel?

RD

Oasis - Don't Look Back in Anger

Until Next Time

~Peace~

My Love...

My Love..
I know that u haven't found me
and I haven't found you too

I am still wondering where you are
I just wanna come near u and find u

My heart just wants me to stop and stare
And find my love from the rest
But how can I find you my love
You are just lost among the rest..

My Love..
I know you are thinking about me
Just like I am thinking about you

I feel you are always beside me
But I cannot wait without seeing you

People say that Patience is bliss
And that you will be here soon
I am waiting and waiting my love
Please come to me soon..

My Love...
I don't wanna cry
And I don't wanna frown

Faint heart never won fair lady
So I am gonna be strong

I know someday.. somehow..
That you will come and find me
So I can see you and shout to the world..
"Shes my Lady.."

I will wait my love..
I will wait..
take your time on the way ..
cos when u come u will be loved forever
And this heart won't give away.....



Until Next Time
~Peace~

The Verve - Bittersweet Symphony

Listen to the Song and Imagine the Dude in the Video as Me..

That's how I feel about life now

A Bittersweet Symphony...

Until Next Time..

~Peace~

Friends .. you "JUST LOST" a Friend...

A long story I thought would go well ended in Disappointment. Two friends( and one not sure) I thought were friends of mine just became something else... I thought the 4 years we spent together was built upon trust and understanding but They NEVER UNDERSTOOD ME .. NEVER WANTED TO HEAR MY SIDE OF THE STORY ... I realized they were not friends I made at Uni, but BUSINESS PARTNERS who wanted to achieve the goal of GETTING THROUGH THEIR DEGREE'S WITH FIRST CLASSES... I couldn't take it anymore and I decided the time was right to end this foolish, pain taking connection WITH PEOPLE WHO JUST DIDN'T CARE ABOUT ME AND THOUGHT I WAS A JOKER ONLY..

so I DECIDED TO TELL THEM TODAY THE WHOLE STORY AND END THE FRIENDSHIP FOREVER ... I DID IT.. and though tears fell down my eyes when I wrote that mail to them cos I ALWAYS CARED ABOUT THEM AS A FRIEND though THEY PRETENDED to show me THEY DID TOO. I WAS HAPPY cos I DID THE THING i wanted to do 4 years back..

If they won't understand me and most importantly TRUST ME what's the point of being friends with them Right?

I am NOT saying that I was always RIGHT I did bad things too my saying no to them whenever they planned out something like a night out, trip or dinner.. BUT I GOT THIS SECRET.. A SECRET THAT IS STILL NOT OVER.. and HAUNTING ME ALL THE TIME.( I only got to know it last October and all those days before, My Instincts drove me to say no as my secret had the power to hurt others as well as me..) It made me to say no to them everytime and EVEN TODAY KNOWING THAT SECRET I hardly say yes to my friends or family when they ask me to go out with them..

THE CATCH here is that my TRUE FRIENDS UNDERSTOOD ME.. but these guys DIDN'T.AND NEVER WANTED TO..


So knowing these things I decided to end this whole mythical friendship we had showing the world. I ENDED IT and I AM DAMN... HAPPY ABOUT IT.. I got soo many good friends who understand me and support me in my decisions so loosing these 2 ( or 3) guys is NOT A PROBLEM FOR ME...

Do remember my dear blogger friends.. FRIENDSHIP IS LIKE A TREE... IT TAKES A LONG TIME TO GROW ONE.. BUT IT TAKES JUST ONE CUT TO BRING DOWN ONE..


So long D and L (and maybe G as well)

THANKS BUT NO THANKS!!!

Until Next Time

~Peace~

Just a Thought..

If you are ever feeling down, sad or neglected
If you think that no one seems to care about you.. and the whole world is against you..
Always follow your heart.. and you will realize...
That you got a best friend who will never leave you..
And that friend is "You!"

Until Next Time

~Peace~

If Our Bloggers were Famous... : )

Well I did this to friends in Facebook so I thought of doing it to my Blogger friends as well. This are the first people who are famous that comes to my mind when I think about my/our fellow bloggers. Check it Out and let me know if there's any similarities...

Enjoy!! =)

Gehan is Elton John




Why??
Well FORGET the gay part Sir Elton John is one of my favorite singers and the best Pianist I have seen in my life so far. I think Gehan is the best piano playing blogger I have ever met and also he can sing Awesomely well 2 and reminds me of Elton John whenever I see his music videos. :)

Sabby is Julia Roberts




Why??
From what I know from her Blog Sabby seems to be one of the hottest bloggers around when it comes to looks and she got eyes fitting for a Beauty and when it comes to Beauty I couldn't think of Julia whom I think is the most Most Beautiful Actress in Hollywood. I am sure Sabby got the looks like her too so Whenever from now on when I talk with Sabby it will be Julia that she will remind me of :).

Sachintha is Kumar Sangakkara



Why??
Sachinitha is a high octane Cricket Fan and when it comes to Cricket I cannot think of anyone else that reminds me of Sach than Kumar Sangakkara I have seen his praise to Kumar in the cricket blogs of Kottu and I also think just like Sanga Sach is a simple man too . So Simple Sachintha will always reminds me of Simple Sanga whenever I will read his blog from now on =)

Lady Divine is Princess Diana



Why??
Princess Diana was the People's Princess and Lady Divine it the People's Lady when it comes to blogs. I know that Princess Diana has passed away but I think she has come back in the form of Lady Divine and the way Lady D spreads her love and encouragement and positivity to all of us by hiding her own problems and sorrows is just amazing and I couldn't think of a better person than Princess Diana. Lady D is the Princess of our fellow bloggers and will remain the same for many more years to come =).

Jerry is Heath Ledger




Why??
Heath was an Awesome Actor.. and Jerry is an Awesome Blogger :) Every little thing he does with his blog is magical and his jesting and humor is no 2nd to the Joker portrayed by Heath Himself in the Dark Night. I don't know about the looks but Jerry has the style of the Joker of the Dark Night and will remind me of him and more Importantly Heath Ledger whenever I read his blog cos like Heath Ledger and his acting Jerry and his blogging cannot be ever touched by anyone else :).


Black is Halle Berry



Why??
Halle Berry is one of my favorite Actresses and Black is one my favorite bloggers. She got this very unique way of writing and can write about anything really well just like Halle does when she is acting. Also Halle is an Oscar Winner just like Black :). So Black will remind me of Halle whenever I read her blog and I am sure she has the looks just like Halle though I have never seen her for real yet :)

The Whackster is Rudyard Kipling




Why??
Mr.Rudyard Kipling is one of my favorite poets and The Whackster is my Favorite poet on blogger :). Just like Kipling he can write poetry in the most natural way and come up with something that is sooo amazing. Mr. Kipling had some awesome books with really awesome English and I think the Whackster's posts also match those skills and quality. So I couldn't find a better match for him and I am proud to be thinking of Mr.Kipling whenever I read the Whackster's blog again =).


Lost Princess is Penelope Cruz



Why??
She is the only lady blogger I have met for real and I think she has the most unique similarity to Penelope Cruz. I am sure if you see her you will feel the same :). Penelope won an Oscar this year and Lost Princess also won an Oscar 2 :) so she reminds me of ( I think she already know hehe) Penelope Cruz whenever I relate her to someone famous :).


The Unspoken is Miley Cyrus



Why??
From what I read so far from her blog The Unspoken is an All rounder and she is also talented just like Miley. I m sure she will reach higher grounds in success in life just like Miley and also smiles like Miley too :). So the Unspoken is Miley Cyrus all the way :).


Finrod is Metallica



Why??
I know he LOVES metal and is a big fan of Metallica so whom else to set him up other than the lead man of Metallica himself? :). So there you go Finrod is rocking the house with Metallica :).

Dee is Karina Kapoorr



Why??
I don't know if Dee is a Hindi Movie Fan but all her style of talking and personality fascinates me and reminds me of every bit of Karina Kapoor. She is an Awesome Actress and Dee is an Awesome Blogger and I am sure there is no vast difference in looks and style as well. I couldn't find a better match and Dee is Karina in my Mind :).


Queen of Vileness is Scarlett Johansson




Why ??
Queen of Vileness has this Uncanny resemblance to Scarlett whenever I read her blog. I am sure she is pretty just like Scarlett :)and also got that mystery which is stated in her name and can be seen in Scarlett's eyes. So Queen of Vileness is Scarlett Johansson for me :)

PassionatelyPatient is Lucy Liu



Why??
Well I saw her pic in her blog and if it's really real i am damn sure she looks like Lucy :). Her eyes are soo similar to her so I think this is the perfect match. :)


Chavie is Nick Jonas




Why??
Being the 18 year old kid he is I couldn't think of anyone better than Nick Jonas from the Jonas Brothers which really suites Chavie. These guys are famous rich and wild and get the ladies wanting them like hell. I am sure Chavie wants to be like that too someday so here's the start Nick Jonas is Chavie :)


N B is Arbaaz Khan



Why??
Just like his blog shows N B has the Influence of Arbaaz Khan and I am sure he looks like him 2 :). N B is a wicked blogger and Arbaaz got style as an Actor so I guess this the perfect match for N B when looking for someone famous that resembles him.:)


RD is Robert De Niro



Why ??
Just see the resemblance , RD is RD :) For me Robert is the most celebrated actor of all time. He acts as the father figure in Hollywood and his acting is matched by none. when it comes to our own RD its the same situation and he recently celebrated his 3 years in blogging which also gave us joy and happiness. So this my tribute to you RD you are Robert De Niro to us in Blogging :)


Until Next Time
~Peace~

The Six List - What We Can Learn from the 130th Battle of the Blues...

130th Battle of the Blues.. A Classic Match that happened over the past week and created history as one of the most extraordinary big matches ever and being it between two celebrated schools in Sri Lanka made it more sweeter and it also bought a smile to my face too in the end :D.

Anyways I am not gonna talk about the Match. I am gonna talk about the things you can learn from it.The Six List this time is dedicated to those lessons and I hope they will enlighten you just like it enlightened me :)


Number 6 - Being Negative at the Start of Anything Can result in Negative Results



At the start of the Match the Thomian Captain won the toss and elected to bowl first in perfecting batting conditions at the SSC. Most thought it was a negative approach and in the end it did gave the team Negative results as Royal piled on around 330 runs and took the Thomians down to 54/4 during the close of Day 1.

What could have happened if Thomians batted first? well I am not a fortune teller but by the looks of things it would have been the same situation the Royalists.
So there you go that is Number 6 "Never start anything Negative frame of mind cos if you do it will bring you bad results that you never expected to come."


Number 5 - Over Confidence is a Bitch..



If you followed the Match you would have seen that the Thomians were shot out for 99 in their first innings early in the 2nd day. Then the Royalists who did a grand job before this decided to enforce the follow on and make the Thomians bat again thinking that they can get them out cheaply again and win the match inside two days..
NOW THIS IS WHERE THEY WENT WRONG !!! They were over confident of winning the match easily and UNDERESTIMATED the Thomians.. the End Result ?? well I guess I don't have to tell you..
Over Confidence comes to any guy or team naturally when they are in the winning side or position and thinks it will last forever and their opponents will never fightback. This is where most people and teams go wrong and in the end loose everything even the winning position they had before. So this is Number 5 "Never be Over Confident about anything cos If you do.. you would get blind.. and everything will start treating you like a Bitch which in the beginning treated you like Angels "



Number 4 - Don't Miss your Chances You will Cry About them Later If you Do



This is a lesson that the Royalists had to learn in a very harsh harsh way. During the Thomian second innings they dropped two catches which proved to be vital in the end cos those catches were given by the two centurions who steered the Thomians to safety. The Royalists didn't think it would cost them much till the end where the Thomians slowly and surely began to save the game.

Chances in life just like cricket doesn't come twice. When it comes you got to take it with both hands otherwise you will miss them and would have to regret it later. And you cannot blame someone else for ruining your glory ( just like the Royalists blaming the Umpires ) cos you ruined it yourself at the first place. So "Don't MISS YOUR CHANCES" and this comes at Number 4.


Number 3 - Don't rely on Seniors Only Do your Part to Make a Difference



This a lesson we learned from the young 15 year old wicketkeeper in the Thomian Team. During the 2nd innings of the Thomians he came into bat with the Thomian Opener F. Saleem who was already their scoring a hundred and steering his team to safety. Suddenly Saleem was out and the young wicketkeeper(S.Peiris) had only the bowlers to play with and steer his team to safety. How well did he do that ? he pushed the lead from 70 odd runs to 190 with the help of the bowlers and it end the proved to be a gem of an innings cos that score was difficult for Royal to get in the end. He also gotta a 50 too but he was focused on his main job.

So what can you learn from this ? People always think that seniors should do the job and they should take the lead when doing anything and you should just stay their helping them out. But is this approach right?? NOOOO ITS WRONG you should be prepared to take the role of your leaders and seniors anytime that's how your personality will come out .. that how you will develop and achieve greater things in life. So there you go Taking responsibilities from Leaders and Seniors and "Making a Difference" comes at Number 3 in the List.


Number 2 - Believe in your Abilities.. It can do Wonders to you



This is a lesson we can learn from the Two Man of the Matches from Both Schools. F. Saleem for the Thomians and K. Perera for Royal. Kusal started the match with a bang and hit an attacking century to bring his team to a strong position and directly put the Thomians under pressure. While Faheem was the Hero for the Thomians as he calmly batted out most of the overs in the 2nd innings and helped the Thomians to enforce a draw which most thought they would loose. What can we learn from both of these unique individuals ?? "Belief in their Own Ability "

Kusal knew he can attack and play well and Faheem knew if he can defend one end it would not easy for Royal to run through the Thomian Batting Order. Both beliefs worked and turned in to Gold to Both teams. So what are U waiting for ?? If you believe in something JUST DO IT don't wait .. cos life is one beautiful thing that gives you freedom to anything you like. But remember your belief should be a strong one otherwise you will just be a victim of circumstances. like Cher said "BELIEVE" and this lesson comes at Number 2.

Number 1 - Never Say Die !!



I guess this is the Most IMPORTANT lesson we learned from the 130th Battle of the Blues and deservedly comes at Number 1. S. Thomas' were down and out in the first day of the match it self reeling at 54/4 but yet they rose from the dead and fought back like warriors fighting a loosing battle and winning it in the end to enforce a draw. Royalists also never gave up piled on the pressure till the very end to enforce a result though they knew its not gonna be easy due the quality of the Thomian's 2nd innings.

This is what life is also all about.. you cannot be down forever. "YOU GOTTA STAND UP.. FACE YOUR FEARS AND FIGHT THEM OFF" . NEVER SAY DIE TILL YOU DIE and if you do that you will achieve greater success in life and become a greater human being respected by all and hurt by none :).


Hope you like the Six List this week.. Let me know what you think :) and yeah Congrats to Both Teams to making the 130th Battle of the Blues the best big match of 2009. :)

Until Next Time

~Peace~

Al Pacino's Inspirational Speech

Talk about Inspiration.. this video just gave the Chills as it taught me a lot on how to work as a Team ..

Hope you like it 2 :)

Enjoy !!

Until Next Time

~Peace~

ZOMG !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok its Friday the 13th and guess what I realized today
I AM SCARED OF MEN!! YES I AM... and I REALLY DO..

I am scared when men look at me in strange ways. I am scared when men keep on making double meaning pranks. I am scared when I don't know when they are serious and when they are not . I AM DAMN SCARED ABOUT EVERYTHING ABOUT THEM !!

This has got to do with the situation I am facing at work where there is not even a mere existence of a lady or a lass ( there are two gals but they are hardly noticed) except men and boys who do things which would make a gal give their resignation letter in 5 minutes if they are on their first day at work(the ones who are there seems like they are used to it but sometimes they react to it too) and for guys like me,its just one thought in your mind everytime.. WILL I BE THE NEXT VICTIM ?? (How about touching your private parts by coming from behind ?? or sneak into the toilet when you are occupying it ?? SCARY RIGHT???)

I see these people as puppets of Edward Cullen from Twilight but the only difference is THESE PEOPLE ARE AFTER BOYS AND ARE THERE TO SUCK ALL THEIR BLOOD OFF AND LEAVE THEM HIGH AND DRY SO THE REMAINS CAN BE EATEN BY VULTURES WHO ARE WAITING TO POUNCE ON ANY ENDS MEAT !


So seems like this Friday the 13th will not be forgotten easily cos I realized something VERY SCARY!! JEEZ seems like its better to hang out with the Ladies for a change rather than hanging with the BOYS isn't it ??

I still can't believe this but seems like It is UNFORTUNATELY TRUE !!!

Until Next Time
~Peace~

If Bloggers were Super Heroes...

Have you ever wondered how our blogger friends would look like if they were Super Heroes ?. Well Check out what I did below and see it for yourself.. Enjoy!! =D.


The Dark Side



DC



RD



Lady Divine



Jerry



Sabby



The Whackster




Goddess of Vileness



My P



The UnSpoken



Sachintha




Black



All the creations were done with Marvel.com and Hugo.com which enables you to create your own Super Heroes.

PS: Remember Always "With Great Power comes Great Responsibilities"

Until Next Time

~Peace~

The Beauty of a Bus Ride..

You wait eagerly.. as the bus comes to the stop
You get on quickly.. cos it makes quick stops
Hang on to the handle.. hoping for the best
You get in to the bus...with a breath of relief

Then you search.. search and search more
For an empty seat... so u can site and go
If you are lucky.. there will be one for you
Else stand near one.. hoping one would go

While on the ride.. you see a lot of sights
Some People quiet, Some talking all the time
You see that pretty chick..k flirting on phone
And the middle aged man.. trying to listen to it all

The Conductor comes.. asking everyone to go back
Cursing everyone.. who pays more than the bus fair
Suddenly.. the driver decides to break
The cursing continues.. its a big big mess

Finally you get a seat.. and you try your best to relax
But then someone sits next to you.. and take half of that space
The cursing continues.. but you put on a pretty smile
But when the traffic heats up.. the smile become a sigh

You see the odd couple... which bring you lot of thoughts
Damn that bustard is lucky.. to have such a pretty fawn
you think about that.. and think about your state
Then again the driver breaks.."DUDE get it over already??"

The heat is on.. and your shirt is sticking to your skin
The crunch is on.. and the space is limiting
The place to get down... is near not far
But you are stuck in the middle.. "DAMN !that door is so far.."

You push everyone while ..getting cursed by the ladies
You trample legs.. saying to everyone "SORRY!".
You finally get to the Door.. as the Driver Breaks again
But you ain't Mad Now.. cos your ride is over for the day

So you see now what a bus ride does.. It teaches you many things
Patience, Silence and so many things.. including Flirting skills
You might ride a Ferrari.. you might ride a Roles Royce
But nothing can match the beauty and joy.. A Bus Ride "ALWAYS" brings


Until Next Time

~Peace~

What Would U Do ?

If you got two choices and don't know what to do and which one you should make..

First Choice


"Work like a dog.. do your Studies well... earn a hell of a lot of Money.. Sacrifice all the Joys and Pleasures that is offered to you at Present and wait till you are Secured to Party , Enjoy Life.. "

Or

2nd Choice

"Party and Enjoy life like Nothing.. without thinking about Work , Responsibilities and Commitments..Thinking we have to do these things cos Life doesn't offer you 2nd Chances and in the end be Sad cos you didn't do anything Productive in Life.. "

What would you do? what choice would you take? I think you cannot take any of the choices but has to do both at a limit. but what is the limit? you are bound to go to one of the two choices full on right?

Life is such a complicated one and when you think of these kinda of things it brings you headaches... hmmmm

For the Moment I am gonna go with the first one. But I guess I cannot sacrifice the 2nd choice too after all life is there to Enjoy right? and as my motto goes "Enjoying the Moment" is the way to go I guess. =)

Have a Good Week Ahead Everyone :)

Until Next Time

~Peace~

The Six List - Reasons Why We Go to the Big Match..

So the Big Match Season is on and Going Wild and hotting up. This week we got the Battle of the Saints and the Battle of the Maroons and Next Week we got the Battle of the Blues.

Did you ever thought the real reasons behind going to Big Matches? Some people might know and some might and the Six List this week gives you the top six reasons on Why We Actually go to Big Matches. Check it out and Let me know what you think =)


Number 6 - To Watch the Match



At Number 6 comes the most least important thing when it comes to going for Big Matches. Watching the Actual Match. MOST people who comes to the Big matches doesn't bother about what is going on the pitch. This can be seen among most lady spectators who doesn't even know what team they should cheer or not (Believe me I have seen that..). Some guys do this too and only cheer when a wicket goes or when some player is getting near a 50 or 100 or the match gets tensed. But there are some people who does watch the match from ball number one and go to watch the match itself. But the Majority doesn't so this comes at number 6 in the list.


Number 5 - To get Leave From Work



Most people don't do this but Some do. Lots of people use the big match to get leave so that go to the match and enjoy it to the max. Some who are not lucky put takes a holiday or go and complain to the Boss "SIR IT'S NOT ANY OTHER MATCH ..IT'S THE BIG MATCH.. PLEASE LET ME GO !!" Most Bosses doesn't give it.. But some do. which makes those employees very happy cos they can go and enjoy the big match to the max without having to work. So this come at Number 5 in the list.


Number 4 - Take your Girl for a Outing and Have a Ball




They say that "A BIG MATCH IS NOT A BIG MATCH WITHOUT THE LADIES.. ". who ever said that its an apt statement cos everytime you go to the big matches you see all thee beautiful girls you have never ever seen before. Its like most of them have been indoors and came out just to see the big match . But do they come to watch the match for real? well its a question cos some do come to watch the match and cheer they brothers and boyfriends, But some come with the dudes who are come to cheer their respective schools. Most of the single guys think that those hot ladies are their girlfriends but most of them doesn't know its not true all the time. Some come on dates so they can make her there girlfriend, and some come just to show they are watching the match but secretly just make out in public. (Oops I shouldn't have spilled that :P) So WHO'S WATCHING THE BIG MATCH NOW?? ??? well I am still watching =D.

Number 3 - To Get Drunk and Get into a Fight if it's Possible



Some people just wait till the big match season arrives so that they can get high and rock the place while dancing to the Papara Bands. The favorite drink that comes out at Big Matches is Vodka with Sunquick and the way they bring the drinks to the ground cannot be mastered through experience and generations. Its ok to enjoy the match though while having a drink or two. But its not good to go beyond limits as if you do the argument, the fist fights and finally the brawls comes out. This mostly happen with a person from the rival school But I have seen it happening between guys in same schools 2. So getting high and also more rarely in the past , more often at present having a fight and getting into a brawl comes at Number 3 in the list.

Number 2 - To Rekindle and Re-unite with old Friends



The big match is all about meeting the old friends you used to meet regularly at school. Most people come down from far away across the world to Sri Lanka just to do this and it does bring back happy memories and the joyous moments of the past that used to be a formality during school days. Its just not meeting friends from your own school but meeting friends from your rival school as well and this is can be seen very well during lunch breaks when everyone comes down to the ground and meet all the friends , give a hug , smile talk about the past and present etc. Its a very very joyous moment and is one of the best things about the Big Match and one of the top 2 reasons I think why people go to Big Matches.

So what is Number 1 ?

Number 1 - To Cheer Your School No Matter What Happens during the Match..



Big matches are all about Pride. People from all walks of life come to the Big Match just to cheer their teams. They don't care that there team is winning or loosing but they are proud and honored to wave their respective college flags, sing their college songs and cheer the hell out for their team when they need it everytime. This is why people really go for Big Matches and that what make Big Matches the real deal and the highlight of the Month of March.. If you love your school you are a fan of the Big Match. And this cannot be seen anywhere else in the world. So this reason is the Number 1 reason Why.. We go to the Big Match.. =).


Until Next Time..

~Peace~

Buddhism .. A Teaching of Negativity ??

I am a Buddhist by Birth and a Devoted Buddhist too. I love my religion and I am glad I was born as a Buddhist because it has taught me a lot of lessons in life and to find true happiness whenever troubles and sorrows have come through.

BUT sometimes, sometimes.. I get these doubts about the teachings of Lord Buddha I know its a sin to have doubts but as a person who always try to find the reason behind every thinking rationally I thought of blogging about some of the things I really don't understand.

Once I attended this sermon and this Buddhist Monk was telling us that Buddhism is a religion that tell you how to make your afterlife (life after death) a joyful one filled with prosperity and never ending happiness(which in the end comes down to Nirvana). I agree with that point too, but the point I don't understand is do we have to sacrifice everything we are doing now to get this eternal happiness? Should we live a negative life by not doing the things we love and enjoy in doing life just to have a happy afterlife ?

I was in doubt when I again during a sermon another Monk explained that Lord Buddha's teachings doesn't say that you should NOT STOP DOING the things you want to do in life. BUT you should do it AT A LIMIT. I agree with that point too but again
What is the Limit ? Can we as Normal Human Beings identify a limit for the things we like to do in life??

Most Buddhist's I know finds it very difficult to live according to the 5 main Sil quotes ( Pan Sil) and this is because as normal human beings we do give in to emotions, attachments and relationships we live with. When you again look at the teachings you see that it means you should detach from these attachments, emotions and relationships as much as you can otherwise you cannot gain happiness.

Can you do that ? I mean as Normal Human Beings can you stop loving your parents and grand parents? stop appreciating and caring for your friends? etc. Can you just live alone like a man who is stuck in an elevator that doesn't work but does have a small hole so that they can still breath and survive but gets forgotten by the world ??

One thing is true though. If you commit sins you are gonna suffer through Karma so understanding this is a must if you want to be happy in the end. But yet again if you just stay away from doing the things you love will you gain happiness? Isn't there room for happiness in the normal life at all?

I have seen so many monks who say they are devoted followers of Buddhist just fight for seats in the Bus, or always ask the other followers(who are not monks) to make this kinda food for Alms Givings and not this kinda food etc. Now what would happen to these kinda Monks? will they get "Nibbana" by living a life that they say is the life of Buddhism but reality it is not ? How would small children seeing this would react ? Won't they think its easy to be a monk and get the food and drinks than earning money to get their ends meat ??

I think you will understand now the point I am trying to get across. Its just though we live according to Religion in reality we cannot live according to it 100 percent. We are normal people so it does make sense but when you look at the teachings again every sin has its consequence even if the sin is done with a good presence of mind and to help another person. (ex: A friend stealing a pen and giving to you to write for an exam cos he doesn't have an extra one and nobody is willing to give an extra one even though they have it)

So we can see that some teachings of Buddhism are really hard to understand and sometimes when we look at some teachings it does point to negativity. This can be seen in other religions too but as I don't know about them I will not talk about it here.

I guess we gotta look at the bigger picture and think twice before we do anything in life and relate it to the teaching of our religions ( in my case Buddhism) but as normal human beings can we actually do it everytime? if we don't do it won't we be able to attain the blissful eternal happiness we call "Nibbana"??

This question is a dilemma and I think it would remain to be a question forever.

Whatever said and done I must stress one thing yet again. "I have a no offense against Buddhism or other religions. I am a Devoted Buddhist too and I am Honored and Privileged for being One.."

Until Next Time

~Peace~

Where is the Love ?

Today..

A dark day for Sri Lanka and Sri Lankan Cricket

A dark day for Sports

A dark day for Pakistan and its quest to evacuate terrorism

A dark day to the world

When will this rot end? When will Peace be permanent and the blood shedding will stop?
I guess we have no answers for these questions now.. I think an answer will not be found forever.

My thoughts are with the Families of the Sri Lankan Cricket Team, I am so glad they are safe and got away with minor injuries. Hope they will recover soon.

My thoughts are also with the brave Pakistani Soldiers who protected our team from the worst while giving their lives.. May you all Rest in Peace!.

Let us all Pray for Our Teams Safe Return .. Let us Pray for our Country and our Brave Forces who are Protecting us.. Let us Pray for the World.. and Hope we will get some Peace very very Soon..

I got nothing else to say at the moment cos I am still Shocked with today's happenings..

I'll end this post the way I started by asking one question..

Where is the Love????

Until Next Time

~Peace~

Reasons why you should NEVER !!! have Sex with a Committed Girl/ Boy...

Ok most people I know ( guys I mean) are desperate to get laid.I guess its the reaction of the hormones of something that makes guys want to get laid or do something with the ladies whenever they get a chance or opportunity. This situation can be commonly seen mostly among teenagers around the world ( including Sri Lanka) but young adults and adults do it too. I think its ok if you are doing it with your girlfriend or wife( 24/7 , 365) but the problem comes when you stray and do it with a girl who is taken and is married. This post discusses the reasons on why you should never have sex with a girl who has a boyfriend or in the worst case is married. Note that by meaning sex I am covering all the kinds of sex two people can have. (this includes Kissing , Phone Sex , Hard Sex , Random Play , flirting (Yes I think its kinda of a sex you do it with your senses) etc etc etc.(I ain't gonna define everything =))

So what are the reasons here it is.. (Note that this applies to Ladies too the other way around. (change girl with boy) I have written these reasons so they can get an Idea too.)

1.If you do it once, the girl will come back for more.They don't care what happens to you they only need the pleasure you are giving cos they are sick of their boyfriends /husbands pleasure they get everyday.

2. They will not come to save you if you get caught to their boyfriends/husbands ( remember the movie "Unfaithful" ?) and they always leave some kinda evidence so their boyfriends/husbands will find out anyway though you will think they won't.

3. If you do it once you won't be able to resist the girl and will all the things in your power to find her back and do it again ( which is again a crime and could lead to allegations of rape or murder..)

4. Its a freaking sin you morons find a girlfriend and do it don't do it with another ones girl. YOU CANNOT FALL IN LOVE WITH A GAL WHO BELONGS TO SOMEONE ELSE !!

5. They are soo many fish in the sea. Why do u want to do it with a girl who belongs to someone else? your partner will come when you need her to so just BE PATIENT !!.

6. "Sex is just Pleasure Love is what that Matter "" remember that when you next time think of having sex with a girl who is taken.

7. Sex is caused by negativity , frustration , anxiety and loneliness if you think Sex can solve that problem ITS WRONG !!! YOU ARE DEAD WRONG !! and if you think you can do it with any girl has a boyfriend, then YOU ARE 100 PERCENT DEAD DEAD WRONG!!

So there you go some reasons why you should NEVER think of having Sex with a girl who is committed or married. Its unethical and against the law and as I said once it could lead to minor problems and consequences.

Control your Emotions... Do a favor to yourself and to others and find a Girlfriend or a Boyfriend you trust to do it. Sex is the culmination of trust and love and if you are not doing it without these two essential vital ingredient well I can say only one thing

May God Have Mercy On your Beloved Souls !!

This post was done just for awareness purposes and it is not written to offend anyone. Its a problem I see in this world ( and in Sri Lanka) today so thought of writing about it so everyone get to know about it.

Let me know what you think..Any Comments are Accepted cos I am open to anything and this post I am sure will cause a stir among every blogger in the Sri Lankan Blogsphere.=) Cos I know most people cannot live without it. whats it? SEX !!!

Until Next Time

~Peace~

Empty Pocket ...

Yes that's what I am these days. The current economic crisis in the world , the world and in the industry (Apparel) I am working for has hit me too. I didn't get my salary for February yet and its not doing anything good for me cos I can't do anything while being bankrupt. The worst thing is that I am missing this year's big match too just because I don't have enough money to buy a freaking ticket :s.

I don't like to ask my parents for money. They are prepared to give me the money but I know what they are going through with paying the fees for Malli and Nangi

This salary situation is bad but the even worse case is the there are people whom I have lend money to and they haven't paid me yet :( . Why do people take money if they can't pay back? this is what I get for being the good guy and lending money to others. I learned a harsh lesson in this and decided never to lend money again to anyone cos I don't trust them anymore. They might think I am filthy rich but they don't know what I am going through in reality.

So no big match this time 2 for me :(. I am looking for new jobs these days and I am hoping of getting one soon. These problems have led me to think of positives too though :). I have some plans and ideas to carry out some dreams which I had from as a kid and I am gonna make them a reality still on the planning sketches though and ill let you know about it very soon. :)

Well I might be bankrupt but I will survive this tide and fingers crossed of getting my salary at least this week.

Have a Good Week Everyone :)

Until Next Time

~Peace~